misssemsem
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Never Had Sex Before: Any Advice?
Posted: 12-28-07 17:39pm
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i 26 years and never have sex befor 
and iam afraid really about first time to
me i dont know what i will do in my
wedding day 
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Rosie H
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Posted: 12-28-07 17:59pm
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Are you getting married soon? Is that why
you are getting so nervous? Is your future
husband a virgin too?
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misssemsem
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Yes Iam But He Is Not
Posted: 12-28-07 18:03pm
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yes my wedding day soon in god willing and
iam virgin but i dont think so that he is
virgin
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misssemsem
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And Yes
Posted: 12-28-07 18:04pm
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misssemsem
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I Want Valnteer :p
Posted: 12-28-07 18:10pm
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when i remember that i will stay with him
in the same place alone its make me
nervouse i wanna some one also with me and
with him 
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Hart74
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Posted: 12-29-07 05:29am
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Just relax and let nature takes it's
course don't have sex because you want to,
do it only when you're ready you'll enjoy
it more.
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misssemsem
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Posted: 12-29-07 19:18pm
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thanks hart74 i will try to remember that
and i hope that i can relax
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purrfection
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Posted: 12-31-07 23:56pm
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You will be fine  Dont be nervous ...
Just relax and try and enjoy yourself .
Let your husband know if you are
uncomfortable at any time.
xo
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misssemsem
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Thanks Too Much Purrfection
Posted: 01-01-08 19:16pm
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i really thanks to u but i dont know if i
can be relax or not but i will try in god
willing and i hope its work. and i hope
that all people in the wedding party come
back home with me dont let me alone in
that day
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Birch
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Posted: 01-01-08 20:16pm
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You don't think he is a virgin?
Shouldn't you know that before you get
married?!?
Sex my first time was not painful at all.
At 26 your body is ready to do it! You
may have already broken your hymen if you
are physically active or use tampons. It
may not hurt at all! Make sure your
husband goes slow, and tell him if it
hurts! I hope it goes well!
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nightangel73
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Posted: 01-01-08 20:33pm
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I lost my virginity in my 30's. I wasn't
nervous at all. Why nervous? I was very
curious about having sex and wanting it so
why would I be nervous. I would be
nervous if I find out in the wedding night
that he is got an erectil dysfunction
problem lol.
I agree with birch before you are married
you should know ALL about his sexual past.
And likewise he should know about yours.
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Subtil
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Posted: 01-01-08 20:45pm
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yea i wouldnt have sex unless you knew who
his previous partners were because he
might contract diseases from other people.
I know this sounds retarded but, watch
romance movies or even watch the sex show
with the old lady on it who answers calls
with people full of questions. Its
natural. It won't be awkward if you truely
love the person your about to commit too,
atleast in that case it was not awkward at
all for my girlfriend and I. If its your
first time, don't stress out, and if you
want people to be there, if you have a
good friend, or a brother or sister to be
around because you don't trust the guy or
something that wouldnt hurt either.
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misssemsem
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to Birch
Posted: 01-03-08 12:23pm
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thanks birch to ur replay i asked him and
he is not . and iam still virgin and i
will asked him to be slowely with me but
to stop my nervous i dont know if i can or
not
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misssemsem
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to Nightangel73
Posted: 01-03-08 12:29pm
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wow that u wasnt nervous at all . but u
wasnt scared that u may be have some pain
or worry about if u will love the sex as
first time to u or not... and offcourse u
have right to worry if he have erectil
problem lol
thanks too much for ur replay nightangel73
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misssemsem
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to Subtil
Posted: 01-03-08 12:40pm
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thanks too much for ur replay, i asked him
about his past and he is frankely answered
me , about see romantic movie i see the
movies is differnt about the real life ,
but may be one day i try it . and yes its
my first in every thing its will be my
first kiss, touch and first time to me in
every thing and its will be in my wedding
day so that what is make me so nervouse .
by the way i was jokin about wanting the
people with me in that day lol . but in
real i dont hope that any one see me in
sex relation what ever how he or she so
close to me ,i realy appricate ur replay
to me thanks too much
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PixieKat
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Posted: 01-03-08 18:10pm
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I hope everything goes great for you! I
would love to beable to go back intime and
save my first kiss and first everything
for the guy i marry. I hope you guys have
a great time! Congrats on getting married!
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lele25
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Posted: 01-03-08 23:39pm
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Just relax and make sure to let him know
what is comfortable for you.
Congratulations on the wedding and good
luck!
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Flurries in the air
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Posted: 01-04-08 02:04am
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just relax, i really dont think you want
some1 tehre except him when you two are
going to have sex. Trust me it will be
good, if you guys love each other it will
be perfect.
just relax and trust him
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-04-08 02:23am
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get him tested for std before you even
start getting nervous about sex
be nervous about the important stuff like
protection (are you on birth control) or
stds first
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misssemsem
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to Pixie Kat
Posted: 01-05-08 12:16pm
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thanks too much . but u wasnt nervouse
befor first kiss and first sex to u?
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