It gives us a lot more time to relax and enjoy this time. We will also have a lot of time to make wedding decisions. His mom wants it in Corvallis, OR, but we would prefer it here (or vegas but we know THAT will be a fight).
She has no girls so we know she will be pushing for a wedding closer to her views. It might drive me nuts, but I do like her and will try to make her happy. As far as I am concerned it is just a day to start my married life, not the most important day EVER. I do NOT want conflict over this.