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VeryWorriedGuy
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Another Teen Pregnancy Question...
Posted: 12-27-07 21:53pm
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hey everyone...i have a question...my
girlfriend thinks she's pregnant but the
thing is, i have never came inside of
her...we thought she was pregnant in
september because we had "sex" for like 10
seconds (i only pushed my penis in like
half way, and i never came in her). She
got her period on October and November,
but the November one was light and
shorter. During november, i came on her
breasts, and never anywhere near her
vagina, and she had her pants and
underwear and pad on. She now says she has
lower back pain, nausea, and
swollen/painful breasts and nipples...what
do you guys/girls think? could she really
be pregnant? We're both stressing about
this and we're very confused ><
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mominashoe
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Posted: 12-27-07 22:13pm
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There is no way that she is pregnant. You
were right to think that she might have
been pregnant from even partial sex back
in September, but periods mean NOT
pregnant. Every period she has means a
clean slate too.
The discomfort and pain that she feels,
although sometimes indicators of
pregnancy, are also symptoms of PMS and/or
stress. She could also be coming down
with the flu.
But don't stress over the possibility of
pregnancy, because it's not there.
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VeryWorriedGuy
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Posted: 12-27-07 22:36pm
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she has also been throwing up in the
morning.....i don't know...like...i broke
up with her because i knew if i stayed
with her theres a chance she'll get
pregnant and i don't want to ruin both our
lives....so i broke up with her...and now
i've been talking to someone who was
pregnant before because she got raped, and
she's telling me that my ex is just saying
all these things about pregnancy because
she wants me to get back with her...i just
don't know what to do...im only 16....i
guess it is too late for me already...by
the way the person i was talking in the
first post about my "girlfriend" is
actually my ex now....broke up cuz i
didn't want to get her pregnant...just to
clear things up a bit lol
Edit: but like honestly...i came on her
breasts i admit that...but she had her
pants on and underwear on and pad on...the
chances of her getting pregnant like that
are slim to none, right? We both even ran
to the washroom right after to clean it
off her breasts..
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mominashoe
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Posted: 12-27-07 22:43pm
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It's possible that she could be doing that
for those reasons, but if she is lying to
you, it is not something that you want to
have in a relationship. It is good to not
want to get her pregnant, but that doesn't
mean you have to ditch her...... you can
base your relationship on something else
besides sex and get to know the other
person without it. You can be together
and have fun without sex.
She could also be pregnant because she had
sex with someone else besides you since
you broke up...and maybe she isn't seeing
that person anymore and needs support.
There are many scenarios that could be
taking place here.
The only way you are going to know for
sure is to confront her and ask what it is
she really wants from you.
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mominashoe
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Posted: 12-27-07 22:45pm
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Oh, I missed the edit.
There isn't any possibility, not even a
slim one, of becoming pregnant through the
outer skin, even if it's on the breasts.
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VeryWorriedGuy
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Posted: 12-27-07 22:49pm
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We've been dating for a year and yeah...we
had a lot of fun moments without
sex....and she just texted me saying "I
GOT MY PERIOD HAPPY?" but...i feel like
she just doesn't want me to be sad or
something....she was very angry on msn
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VeryWorriedGuy
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Posted: 12-27-07 22:54pm
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oh man she just texted me back saying
"MAYBE ITS REAL MAYBE ITS NOT (the period
thing) AND YEAH IM PISSED OFF I HAVE ALL
THESE SYMPTOMS AND ALL YOU PEOPLE CAN SAY
IS ITS NOT PREGNANCY THEN WHY THE HELL
WOULD I GET THESE SYMPTOMS I NEVER HAD
THEM BEFORE YOU MAKE IT SOUND LIKE IM
MAKING IT UP FOR ATTENTION" those were her
exact words i don't know what to do with
my life now
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mominashoe
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Posted: 12-27-07 22:55pm
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Well you are broken up and have moved on,
so don't worry too much about her. She is
having a period and obviously has very bad
PMS, so she's going to be quite moody and
seem pretty angry with you. It's normal
and will pass. There is medication that
she can take to ease her PMS symptoms so
she's not flying off the wall like that.
I'm not saying that it means she likes you
or wants to get back with you, just that
her possible negative feelings about you
might be heightened by her health
situation.
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VeryWorriedGuy
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Posted: 12-27-07 22:57pm
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oh alright...thank you very much for
answering my questions mominashow =) i
really appreciate it...to be honest, i was
so scared about what would happen i've
been slitting my wrist i just don't know
what to do....
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mominashoe
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Posted: 12-27-07 22:58pm
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BTW, since you are 16, I'm assuming that
she's about the same age....
Of course she can have these symptoms when
she never had them before. She is still
growing and going through puberty. It
doesn't make everyone else around her
liars and idiots.
Move on. She obviously doesn't care about
you too much to care about how you are
feeling, no matter how she is.
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VeryWorriedGuy
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mominashoe
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Posted: 12-27-07 23:01pm
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Eh, don't slit your wrists over a teen
relationship. It's not your fault and you
have a long life ahead of you..... IF you
feel like that, maybe you might need a
little help and counsel yourself. Don't
do anything stupid and hurt yourself.
That's not going to solve anything.
NP for the help. 
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VeryWorriedGuy
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Posted: 12-27-07 23:02pm
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yeah the school actually saw my cuts and
all my english teachers that i know
stopped marking their essays and came to
talk to me...i really like them now...i
also have a psychiatrist and a doctor and
a counsellor...just sometimes life is just
too darn cconfusing
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mominashoe
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Posted: 12-28-07 00:06am
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You know, you should actually go up to the
depression and self injury part of this
forum. It might help you to talk to
others on here about your condition.
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VeryWorriedGuy
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Posted: 12-28-07 00:23am
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i just need to know my ex is okay and that
she isn't pregnant and i will be back to
my normal self lol Thanks for your concern
though, mominashoe 
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Moo
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Posted: 12-28-07 07:16am
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mominashoe gave you some great advice hun,
there's no way you could have gotten her
pregnant with what you guys did.
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Lilly Ivy
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Posted: 12-28-07 08:04am
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I read the text she sent you... It is very
possible she's getting symptoms because
she THINKS she is pregnant. There have
been cases where a girl/woman has missed
her period because her mind was strong
enough to believe her body was pregnant,
but of course did not produce the hormone.
It's also stress about might being
pregnant. I've had symptoms like that
plenty of times with a pregnancy scare,
but of course I wasn't. and yes PMS is
awful and she sounds p/o ed about it, so
definitely suggest Midol or something...
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-28-07 08:08am
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I agree with those who think she is just
manipulating you.
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VeryWorriedGuy
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Posted: 12-28-07 12:03pm
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oh ok.....thanks Moo, Lilly Ivy, and
futureshock....she's messaging me on msn
and she's so pissed off.....think i need
my counsellor now...she's so mad im asking
you guys, but its for our own good
anyways...and besides, i didn't even
mention names
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 12-28-07 12:06pm
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She sounds so manipulative. If i were you
i'd block her on MSN so she's not
bothering you so you can relax, you
obviously need a little 'you' time right
now
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