There is no way that she is pregnant. You were right to think that she might have been pregnant from even partial sex back in September, but periods mean NOT pregnant. Every period she has means a clean slate too.

The discomfort and pain that she feels, although sometimes indicators of pregnancy, are also symptoms of PMS and/or stress. She could also be coming down with the flu.

But don't stress over the possibility of pregnancy, because it's not there.

she has also been throwing up in the morning.....i don't know...like...i broke up with her because i knew if i stayed with her theres a chance she'll get pregnant and i don't want to ruin both our lives....so i broke up with her...and now i've been talking to someone who was pregnant before because she got raped, and she's telling me that my ex is just saying all these things about pregnancy because she wants me to get back with her...i just don't know what to do...im only 16....i guess it is too late for me already...by the way the person i was talking in the first post about my "girlfriend" is actually my ex now....broke up cuz i didn't want to get her pregnant...just to clear things up a bit lol

Edit: but like honestly...i came on her breasts i admit that...but she had her pants on and underwear on and pad on...the chances of her getting pregnant like that are slim to none, right? We both even ran to the washroom right after to clean it off her breasts..

It's possible that she could be doing that for those reasons, but if she is lying to you, it is not something that you want to have in a relationship. It is good to not want to get her pregnant, but that doesn't mean you have to ditch her...... you can base your relationship on something else besides sex and get to know the other person without it. You can be together and have fun without sex.

She could also be pregnant because she had sex with someone else besides you since you broke up...and maybe she isn't seeing that person anymore and needs support. There are many scenarios that could be taking place here.

The only way you are going to know for sure is to confront her and ask what it is she really wants from you.

Oh, I missed the edit.

There isn't any possibility, not even a slim one, of becoming pregnant through the outer skin, even if it's on the breasts.

We've been dating for a year and yeah...we had a lot of fun moments without sex....and she just texted me saying "I GOT MY PERIOD HAPPY?" but...i feel like she just doesn't want me to be sad or something....she was very angry on msn

oh man she just texted me back saying "MAYBE ITS REAL MAYBE ITS NOT (the period thing) AND YEAH IM PISSED OFF I HAVE ALL THESE SYMPTOMS AND ALL YOU PEOPLE CAN SAY IS ITS NOT PREGNANCY THEN WHY THE HELL WOULD I GET THESE SYMPTOMS I NEVER HAD THEM BEFORE YOU MAKE IT SOUND LIKE IM MAKING IT UP FOR ATTENTION" those were her exact words i don't know what to do with my life now

Well you are broken up and have moved on, so don't worry too much about her. She is having a period and obviously has very bad PMS, so she's going to be quite moody and seem pretty angry with you. It's normal and will pass. There is medication that she can take to ease her PMS symptoms so she's not flying off the wall like that.

I'm not saying that it means she likes you or wants to get back with you, just that her possible negative feelings about you might be heightened by her health situation.

oh alright...thank you very much for answering my questions mominashow =) i really appreciate it...to be honest, i was so scared about what would happen i've been slitting my wrist i just don't know what to do....

BTW, since you are 16, I'm assuming that she's about the same age....

Of course she can have these symptoms when she never had them before. She is still growing and going through puberty. It doesn't make everyone else around her liars and idiots.

Move on. She obviously doesn't care about you too much to care about how you are feeling, no matter how she is.

yeah she's 16 too

Eh, don't slit your wrists over a teen relationship. It's not your fault and you have a long life ahead of you..... IF you feel like that, maybe you might need a little help and counsel yourself. Don't do anything stupid and hurt yourself. That's not going to solve anything.

NP for the help.

yeah the school actually saw my cuts and all my english teachers that i know stopped marking their essays and came to talk to me...i really like them now...i also have a psychiatrist and a doctor and a counsellor...just sometimes life is just too darn cconfusing

You know, you should actually go up to the depression and self injury part of this forum. It might help you to talk to others on here about your condition.

i just need to know my ex is okay and that she isn't pregnant and i will be back to my normal self lol Thanks for your concern though, mominashoe

mominashoe gave you some great advice hun, there's no way you could have gotten her pregnant with what you guys did.

I read the text she sent you... It is very possible she's getting symptoms because she THINKS she is pregnant. There have been cases where a girl/woman has missed her period because her mind was strong enough to believe her body was pregnant, but of course did not produce the hormone. It's also stress about might being pregnant. I've had symptoms like that plenty of times with a pregnancy scare, but of course I wasn't. and yes PMS is awful and she sounds p/o ed about it, so definitely suggest Midol or something...

I agree with those who think she is just manipulating you.

oh ok.....thanks Moo, Lilly Ivy, and futureshock....she's messaging me on msn and she's so pissed off.....think i need my counsellor now...she's so mad im asking you guys, but its for our own good anyways...and besides, i didn't even mention names

She sounds so manipulative. If i were you i'd block her on MSN so she's not bothering you so you can relax, you obviously need a little 'you' time right now