Hello Stacy,
Thank you for sharing some more information with me. I am glad that you have seen a spinal surgeon.
GREAT that you now plan the next step to see a neurologist. I truly hope he/she will be able to help you.
May I chat a bit about ERs? I don't know how ERs are by you, but here they are SOOooooo rushed and their main concerns are the really big life threatening cases. Our experience with ERs is that they will take any immediate steps that need to be taken, but then you need to see your own doctor or a specialist for the medical difficulty you are having. Does that at all sound familar with the ER situation by you?
Back to a neurologist - Stacy, try to find the very BEST neurologist that you can. Talk to others that have seen a neurologist for their recommendation. Call the hospitals for their recommendation for an excellent neurologist. Even call the offices of the sports teams to find out the name(s) of the neurologist that they use for their players.
Make an appointment with the one at the top of your list, and then make an appointment with the second top one on your list. I know you have seen a number of doctors already, however, another opinion can be very helpful.
You have not mentiioned whether you have had an MRI. If not, I would hope the neurologist would recommend that you have one. Hopefully it would at least tell(show) you if there is a spine/nerve problem or not.
And if the doctor also things you have a muscle related problem, then ask him/her for the name of a doctor that specializes in that area.
I wish you the best. Please stay in touch and let us know how things go for you. I truly hope that you can find a solution to the severe pain that you have been experiencing for far too long.
RichT