Is it normal for me to be up and down so much emotionally now that its the end of my pregnancy (almost 40 weeks)? I can't ease my mind, I'm nervous, scared and I'm getting hurt so easily, becomming paranoid about things, finding myself upset over little things and it just seems like I'm going crazy. Is this normal or a sign of depression? Will it fade away or is this a cause for concern and I should dicuss it with my Dr. I'm a first time mom to so I'm sure that has a lot to do with it? Thanks girls.
Definitely normal... and I am definitely not a new mom and I have it pretty bad. I've had 5 other deliveries, so I know...the 6th one now is killing me just as badly. I feel trapped, feel like running away, can't breathe, can't sleep, every little thing bothers me.....sometimes I wish I really was dead. I can't run away from myself because the baby is there and will be everywhere I go until delivery.
You could go on anti-depressants, but these take the average of a month to start working and you only have less than a week until your due date. Once you deliver, these hormones and the discomforts of pregnancy will be gone.
If you feel like you need to hurt yourself or others, or become suicidal, and just can't seem to cope with everything and it is driving you to do desperate things, talk to your doctor, but chances are you are pretty near the end and the hormones that are causing these panicking and depressive feelings are a sign that you are really close to the end of your pregnancy
It's normal. I was an emotional wreck in the end. Anything would upset me. I broke down into a sobbing mess in the Kohls parking lot because I though Mike had a tone with me.
Your getting ready to bring a new life into this world. That is scary stuff!
Laughing one minute, crying my brains out the next, I hate it so much because I have to reason to be crying which makes me more upset. Then he yells at me because I'm crying for no reason, so I feel bad for him having to listen to me then I start crying about that.
Oh yes, I have quite a history of depression and I've been to therapists, taken tons of different meds and such. None of the regular methods for depression and anxiety have worked for me. What it comes down to is mind over matter every time for me.
I've had a pretty traumatic life and every once in a while things seem to pile on top of each other no end. Don't know why it's like that, but there it is. Just when you think you can handle everything, your health gets worse, you stop sleeping, you mom does this to you, your sister does that to you, something happens with hubby's job...... that's pretty tough for one person to handle.
Don't worry about me, lol. I know what's happening and what it's about, and thanks for the concern.