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Q: I Seriously Need to Vent!
asked by: Amber*Marie on December 27th, 2007
Extremely eHealthy
Joey is cheating on me. I know he is Im not dumb. He says she is just a friend but bull bologna! Theres this girl that Joey as been friends with for a few years. Well this summer he told me she use to have a thing for him and wanted to be with him but he said no. When he told me this it didnt bother me because they havent talked for over a year. Well about a month ago she calls him up and asks for his bosses number so she can see if she can get a job out there. Joey gave her the freaking number and said " They wont hire her. They only hire men because of the heavy machinery" Well she got hired. He tells me he had to train her and she rode in his drill withhim all night long. I asked him what they talked about and he said only about work. Okay thats fine I guess. Then I started thinking she drives a mustang, its low, that car would get beat all to peices out there. So I asked Joey if she drives her car out there. "Ummmmm no i i i i i i go pick her up" I asked 'just when tha "f" was you going to tell me this" He told me he wasnt going to. OK that blew some steam. That day we got into a HUGE arguement. He didnt come home til hours on top of hours later. I texted and asked him where was he. He didnt text back. When he got home he told me him and that b*t*h went to a truck stop to eat. So I put ALL this crap together. She got hired. Hes been leaving for work early. Coming home 2-3hours after he gets off. She calls him like 5 times a day. This is depressing me!! Do I deserve this stuff NO I DONT!

Last night Amelia banged on the wall and a picture came crashing down on her head. I felt horrible and cried about it. This afternoon I asked Joey if he would ride to walmart with me to get some diaper wipes. He said ok. I go get ready and come back out and hes still sitting wathing tv and says hes not going and that he will stay here and watch Amelia. I told him no because he always either falls asleep or goes to a diferent room and she gets hurt. So he decides to throw what happend last night up in my face. Lastnight was a freak accident. Him not watching amelia isnt!

Hes gross! He hocks luggies while he is taking a shower. I have to clean that caca up befre I get in. Im tired of him trashing my truck and me having to clean up his stupid caca. Im tired of everything about him. Istarted back drinking again and smoking more cigs just because of him. I ben trying to get out and have more fun. I met this guy but I couldnt handle him either. He was already talking about moving in with each other and having his baby. So HELL NO to him too. All I want is to be myself and have fun again without all the drama. I can go have fun and be a mom too. Thanks to Aaron and Michelle that has made me realize that!! Smile I have a feeling he is going to get on here and read this so if he does this little messege is for him "Screw off! SMILE!! Smile" Okay now I got to go peepee
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oh_mommy
replied on December 27th, 2007
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that really sucks, but im glad you got your head up high! but if i were you i wouldnt be smoking and drinking, thats not doing you anygood.. just get the he!! outta there and you'll be fine
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Amber*Marie
replied on December 27th, 2007
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Oh and I just wanted to add to say that Im stupid to not have listened to you guys earlier this year about leaving him. This time its going to happen. I got big enough balls now. I just ot to find me a job. My Mom said she will help me find a place Smile She doesnt like what joeys doing either.
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Amber*Marie
replied on December 27th, 2007
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oh_mommy wrote:
that really sucks, but im glad you got your head up high! but if i were you i wouldnt be smoking and drinking, thats not doing you anygood.. just get the he!! outta there and you'll be fine


i know I dont need to but damn it relaxes me lol
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NotEnoughForAnyone
replied on December 27th, 2007
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Wow, I'm glad you figured it all out and are ready to move on. You and amelia do NOT deserve that crap. Don't resort to drinking, think of amelia hun! THings will be ok. I'm in the same boat as you (except I don't have a kid). Don't want no one, just wanna have some fun and me time! I'm here if you need to talk!
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OctoberBaby06
replied on December 27th, 2007
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I'm so sorry to hear all this hun Sad You & Amelia deserve so much more than Joey. & I'm glad you've realized that you can have fun while still being a Mom. Just be careful with the drinking! & the smoking! You can't go killin yourself before we get to meet this summer! Oh hey, I've been looking up packages for Myrtle Beach, lemme know what you think!
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hopefulmjz
replied on December 27th, 2007
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I'm sorry Amber. Men can be such monsters! I'm glad you've got help from your mother to find a place and get out of there. Joey doesn't deserve you 2!
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newmommy07
replied on December 27th, 2007
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Re: I Seriously Need to Vent!
BamaMommy wrote:
Joey is cheating on me. I know he is Im not dumb. He says she is just a friend but bull bologna! Theres this girl that Joey as been friends with for a few years. Well this summer he told me she use to have a thing for him and wanted to be with him but he said no. When he told me this it didnt bother me because they havent talked for over a year. Well about a month ago she calls him up and asks for his bosses number so she can see if she can get a job out there. Joey gave her the freaking number and said " They wont hire her. They only hire men because of the heavy machinery" Well she got hired. He tells me he had to train her and she rode in his drill withhim all night long. I asked him what they talked about and he said only about work. Okay thats fine I guess. Then I started thinking she drives a mustang, its low, that car would get beat all to peices out there. So I asked Joey if she drives her car out there. "Ummmmm no i i i i i i go pick her up" I asked 'just when tha "f" was you going to tell me this" He told me he wasnt going to. OK that blew some steam. That day we got into a HUGE arguement. He didnt come home til hours on top of hours later. I texted and asked him where was he. He didnt text back. When he got home he told me him and that b*t*h went to a truck stop to eat. So I put ALL this crap together. She got hired. Hes been leaving for work early. Coming home 2-3hours after he gets off. She calls him like 5 times a day. This is depressing me!! Do I deserve this stuff NO I DONT!

Last night Amelia banged on the wall and a picture came crashing down on her head. I felt horrible and cried about it. This afternoon I asked Joey if he would ride to walmart with me to get some diaper wipes. He said ok. I go get ready and come back out and hes still sitting wathing tv and says hes not going and that he will stay here and watch Amelia. I told him no because he always either falls asleep or goes to a diferent room and she gets hurt. So he decides to throw what happend last night up in my face. Lastnight was a freak accident. Him not watching amelia isnt!

Hes gross! He hocks luggies while he is taking a shower. I have to clean that caca up befre I get in. Im tired of him trashing my truck and me having to clean up his stupid caca. Im tired of everything about him. Istarted back drinking again and smoking more cigs just because of him. I ben trying to get out and have more fun. I met this guy but I couldnt handle him either. He was already talking about moving in with each other and having his baby. So HELL NO to him too. All I want is to be myself and have fun again without all the drama. I can go have fun and be a mom too. Thanks to Aaron and Michelle that has made me realize that!! Smile I have a feeling he is going to get on here and read this so if he does this little messege is for him "Screw off! SMILE!! Smile" Okay now I got to go peepee



What a jerk he is! I'm glad you have such a good outlook and ppl to help you get out of there, you can do this! Why are guys such idiots? Sad Well you deserve so much better and I have faith you will do well, just going to be a lil rough and hard for now. Goodluck with everything, I wish you so much luck in everything you do. Smile I'm proud to hear that your taking this so well and staying so strong.
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Amber*Marie
replied on December 27th, 2007
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Thanks for all the replies! You guys made me feel better. Im thinking about getting a job at a fast food plcae since they have flexible hours but I already tried it once and it didnt work out too well. Im guess I will suck it up and try it again. Tomorrow Im going to go get sign up to be on the waiting list for a government apt. hope I can get one soon. Anyone need a roommate? lol jp
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michelle1981
replied on December 27th, 2007
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I was hoping things were going to get better Sad . Sounds like you have a deadbeat on your hands.... wash that scum right off!
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Amber*Marie
replied on December 27th, 2007
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michelle1981 wrote:
I was hoping things were going to get better Sad . Sounds like you have a deadbeat on your hands.... wash that scum right off!


They got better when I fell pregnant again. Then after I miscarried it all went down the drain again so that told me something. Hes washing off pretty easy ol
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musikmaker
replied on December 27th, 2007
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I didn't know that you miscarried. I am so sorry.

I think that he doesn't deserve you. Maybe if you leave he will wake up. There is always marriage counseling too. Dan and I went and it saved our marriage.

Men are so difficult to live with.
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Sandbox Party
replied on December 27th, 2007
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:'(

im sorry Amber.

You're right... you two deserve way better than a low-life scumbag who cant be faithful.
Joey.. if you read this. i hope your microscopic wiener gets caught in ur zipper and lit on fire.

Amber.. i love you, and i will be here for you no matter what.

JOEY UR A JERK and i hope the nasty ho-bag ur cheating on Amber with gives you veneral disease and herpes.
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yellow ribbon
replied on December 28th, 2007
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amber feel free to run away to FL for a bit. you n amelia can come stay here any time you need to get away. im glad your leaving his sory butt Smile you deserve to be happy and treated like princess. did ne one tell you you look gorgeous in that avatar pic?
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Amber*Marie
replied on December 28th, 2007
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lol sandy you made mel laugh really loud!
Dani I LOVE Florida I been thinking about moving down there near PCB but that will be awhile Sad Man I wanna go back

musicmaker- (sorry i have problems remembering everyones names) Thanks you cheered me up. So did everyone else. Smile
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yellow ribbon
replied on December 28th, 2007
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ive never been there. im in the middle by disney.
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Amber*Marie
replied on December 28th, 2007
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~dani~ wrote:
ive never been there. im in the middle by disney.


oooooooo i wanna go to disney and see my man mickey. Im sweating in this tub lol. Im sitting here in my bubble bath on my laptop hahaha
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Sandbox Party
replied on December 28th, 2007
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BamaMommy wrote:
~dani~ wrote:
ive never been there. im in the middle by disney.


oooooooo i wanna go to disney and see my man mickey. Im sweating in this tub lol. Im sitting here in my bubble bath on my laptop hahaha


haha ive done that!

girl disney is SO expensive and TOTALLY not worth it.. maybe the first time you go, just for the experience... but heres a little advice.. if you ever do go, make sure you get a park hopper pass..(i think you can get ones that are goof for a few days) its a LITTLE bit more expensive, but its worth it to see all 4 parks.
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yellow ribbon
replied on December 28th, 2007
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ya disney isnt to exciting at this age but i cant wait to take macy. i can buy discounted tix at the itt office.
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Amber*Marie
replied on December 28th, 2007
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maybe i will just stick to my six flags
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