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Amber*Marie
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I Seriously Need to Vent!
Posted: 12-27-07 16:25pm
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Joey is cheating on me. I know he is Im
not dumb. He says she is just a friend but
bull bologna! Theres this girl that Joey
as been friends with for a few years. Well
this summer he told me she use to have a
thing for him and wanted to be with him
but he said no. When he told me this it
didnt bother me because they havent talked
for over a year. Well about a month ago
she calls him up and asks for his bosses
number so she can see if she can get a job
out there. Joey gave her the freaking
number and said " They wont hire her. They
only hire men because of the heavy
machinery" Well she got hired. He tells me
he had to train her and she rode in his
drill withhim all night long. I asked him
what they talked about and he said only
about work. Okay thats fine I guess. Then
I started thinking she drives a mustang,
its low, that car would get beat all to
peices out there. So I asked Joey if she
drives her car out there. "Ummmmm no i i i
i i i go pick her up" I asked 'just when
tha "f" was you going to tell me this" He
told me he wasnt going to. OK that blew
some steam. That day we got into a HUGE
arguement. He didnt come home til hours on
top of hours later. I texted and asked him
where was he. He didnt text back. When he
got home he told me him and that b*t*h
went to a truck stop to eat. So I put ALL
this crap together. She got hired. Hes
been leaving for work early. Coming home
2-3hours after he gets off. She calls him
like 5 times a day. This is depressing
me!! Do I deserve this stuff NO I DONT!
Last night Amelia banged on the wall and a
picture came crashing down on her head. I
felt horrible and cried about it. This
afternoon I asked Joey if he would ride to
walmart with me to get some diaper wipes.
He said ok. I go get ready and come back
out and hes still sitting wathing tv and
says hes not going and that he will stay
here and watch Amelia. I told him no
because he always either falls asleep or
goes to a diferent room and she gets hurt.
So he decides to throw what happend last
night up in my face. Lastnight was a freak
accident. Him not watching amelia isnt!
Hes gross! He hocks luggies while he is
taking a shower. I have to clean that caca
up befre I get in. Im tired of him
trashing my truck and me having to clean
up his stupid caca. Im tired of everything
about him. Istarted back drinking again
and smoking more cigs just because of him.
I ben trying to get out and have more fun.
I met this guy but I couldnt handle him
either. He was already talking about
moving in with each other and having his
baby. So HELL NO to him too. All I want is
to be myself and have fun again without
all the drama. I can go have fun and be a
mom too. Thanks to Aaron and Michelle that
has made me realize that!!  I have a feeling he
is going to get on here and read this so
if he does this little messege is for him
"Screw off! SMILE!!  " Okay now I got to
go peepee
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 12-27-07 16:32pm
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that really sucks, but im glad you got
your head up high! but if i were you i
wouldnt be smoking and drinking, thats not
doing you anygood.. just get the he!!
outta there and you'll be fine
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Amber*Marie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 1430
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Posted: 12-27-07 16:33pm
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Oh and I just wanted to add to say that Im
stupid to not have listened to you guys
earlier this year about leaving him. This
time its going to happen. I got big enough
balls now. I just ot to find me a job. My
Mom said she will help me find a place
 She doesnt like
what joeys doing either.
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Amber*Marie
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Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 1430
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Posted: 12-27-07 16:35pm
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| oh_mommy
wrote: | | that really sucks, but im
glad you got your head up high! but if i
were you i wouldnt be smoking and
drinking, thats not doing you anygood..
just get the he!! outta there and you'll
be fine |
i know I dont need to but damn it relaxes
me lol
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NotEnoughForAnyone
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Joined: 10 Dec 2007 Posts: 181 Location: Sunny ol' Florida
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Posted: 12-27-07 17:15pm
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Wow, I'm glad you figured it all out and
are ready to move on. You and amelia do
NOT deserve that crap. Don't resort to
drinking, think of amelia hun! THings will
be ok. I'm in the same boat as you (except
I don't have a kid). Don't want no one,
just wanna have some fun and me time! I'm
here if you need to talk!
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OctoberBaby06
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Posted: 12-27-07 17:21pm
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I'm so sorry to hear all this hun  You & Amelia
deserve so much more than Joey. & I'm
glad you've realized that you can have fun
while still being a Mom. Just be careful
with the drinking! & the smoking! You
can't go killin yourself before we get to
meet this summer! Oh hey, I've been
looking up packages for Myrtle Beach,
lemme know what you think!
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 12-27-07 17:22pm
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I'm sorry Amber. Men can be such monsters!
I'm glad you've got help from your mother
to find a place and get out of there. Joey
doesn't deserve you 2!
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newmommy07
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Re: I Seriously Need to Vent!
Posted: 12-27-07 18:04pm
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| BamaMommy
wrote: | Joey is cheating on me. I
know he is Im not dumb. He says she is
just a friend but bull bologna! Theres
this girl that Joey as been friends with
for a few years. Well this summer he told
me she use to have a thing for him and
wanted to be with him but he said no. When
he told me this it didnt bother me because
they havent talked for over a year. Well
about a month ago she calls him up and
asks for his bosses number so she can see
if she can get a job out there. Joey gave
her the freaking number and said " They
wont hire her. They only hire men because
of the heavy machinery" Well she got
hired. He tells me he had to train her and
she rode in his drill withhim all night
long. I asked him what they talked about
and he said only about work. Okay thats
fine I guess. Then I started thinking she
drives a mustang, its low, that car would
get beat all to peices out there. So I
asked Joey if she drives her car out
there. "Ummmmm no i i i i i i go pick her
up" I asked 'just when tha "f" was you
going to tell me this" He told me he wasnt
going to. OK that blew some steam. That
day we got into a HUGE arguement. He didnt
come home til hours on top of hours later.
I texted and asked him where was he. He
didnt text back. When he got home he told
me him and that b*t*h went to a truck stop
to eat. So I put ALL this crap together.
She got hired. Hes been leaving for work
early. Coming home 2-3hours after he gets
off. She calls him like 5 times a day.
This is depressing me!! Do I deserve this
stuff NO I DONT!
Last night Amelia banged on the wall and a
picture came crashing down on her head. I
felt horrible and cried about it. This
afternoon I asked Joey if he would ride to
walmart with me to get some diaper wipes.
He said ok. I go get ready and come back
out and hes still sitting wathing tv and
says hes not going and that he will stay
here and watch Amelia. I told him no
because he always either falls asleep or
goes to a diferent room and she gets hurt.
So he decides to throw what happend last
night up in my face. Lastnight was a freak
accident. Him not watching amelia isnt!
Hes gross! He hocks luggies while he is
taking a shower. I have to clean that caca
up befre I get in. Im tired of him
trashing my truck and me having to clean
up his stupid caca. Im tired of everything
about him. Istarted back drinking again
and smoking more cigs just because of him.
I ben trying to get out and have more fun.
I met this guy but I couldnt handle him
either. He was already talking about
moving in with each other and having his
baby. So HELL NO to him too. All I want is
to be myself and have fun again without
all the drama. I can go have fun and be a
mom too. Thanks to Aaron and Michelle that
has made me realize that!! I have a feeling he
is going to get on here and read this so
if he does this little messege is for him
"Screw off! SMILE!! " Okay now I got to
go peepee |
What a jerk he is! I'm glad you have such
a good outlook and ppl to help you get out
of there, you can do this! Why are guys
such idiots? Well you deserve so
much better and I have faith you will do
well, just going to be a lil rough and
hard for now. Goodluck with everything, I
wish you so much luck in everything you
do. I'm proud to hear
that your taking this so well and staying
so strong.
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Amber*Marie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 1430
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Posted: 12-27-07 19:05pm
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Thanks for all the replies! You guys made
me feel better. Im thinking about getting
a job at a fast food plcae since they have
flexible hours but I already tried it once
and it didnt work out too well. Im guess I
will suck it up and try it again. Tomorrow
Im going to go get sign up to be on the
waiting list for a government apt. hope I
can get one soon. Anyone need a roommate?
lol jp
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michelle1981
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Posted: 12-27-07 19:48pm
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I was hoping things were going to get
better  . Sounds like you
have a deadbeat on your hands.... wash
that scum right off!
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Amber*Marie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 1430
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Posted: 12-27-07 19:53pm
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| michelle1981
wrote: | I was hoping things were
going to get better . Sounds like you
have a deadbeat on your hands.... wash
that scum right
off! |
They got better when I fell pregnant
again. Then after I miscarried it all went
down the drain again so that told me
something. Hes washing off pretty easy ol
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musikmaker
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Joined: 30 May 2006 Posts: 1778 Location: Chicago, US
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Posted: 12-27-07 22:31pm
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I didn't know that you miscarried. I am so
sorry.
I think that he doesn't deserve you. Maybe
if you leave he will wake up. There is
always marriage counseling too. Dan and I
went and it saved our marriage.
Men are so difficult to live with.
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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 12-27-07 23:12pm
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:'(
im sorry Amber.
You're right... you two deserve way better
than a low-life scumbag who cant be
faithful.
Joey.. if you read this. i hope your
microscopic wiener gets caught in ur
zipper and lit on fire.
Amber.. i love you, and i will be here for
you no matter what.
JOEY UR A JERK and i hope the nasty ho-bag
ur cheating on Amber with gives you
veneral disease and herpes.
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yellow ribbon
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
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Posted: 12-28-07 01:17am
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amber feel free to run away to FL for a
bit. you n amelia can come stay here any
time you need to get away. im glad your
leaving his sory butt  you deserve to be
happy and treated like princess. did ne
one tell you you look gorgeous in that
avatar pic?
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Amber*Marie
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Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 1430
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Posted: 12-28-07 10:38am
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lol sandy you made mel laugh really loud!
Dani I LOVE Florida I been thinking about
moving down there near PCB but that will
be awhile  Man I wanna go
back
musicmaker- (sorry i have problems
remembering everyones names) Thanks you
cheered me up. So did everyone else. 
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yellow ribbon
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
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Posted: 12-28-07 10:40am
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ive never been there. im in the middle by
disney.
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 12-28-07 10:51am
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| ~dani~
wrote: | | ive never been there. im in
the middle by
disney. |
oooooooo i wanna go to disney and see my
man mickey. Im sweating in this tub lol.
Im sitting here in my bubble bath on my
laptop hahaha
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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 12-28-07 13:03pm
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| BamaMommy
wrote: | | ~dani~
wrote: | | ive never been there. im in
the middle by
disney. |
oooooooo i wanna go to disney and see my
man mickey. Im sweating in this tub lol.
Im sitting here in my bubble bath on my
laptop hahaha |
haha ive done that!
girl disney is SO expensive and TOTALLY
not worth it.. maybe the first time you
go, just for the experience... but heres a
little advice.. if you ever do go, make
sure you get a park hopper pass..(i think
you can get ones that are goof for a few
days) its a LITTLE bit more expensive, but
its worth it to see all 4 parks.
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yellow ribbon
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
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Posted: 12-28-07 13:33pm
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ya disney isnt to exciting at this age but
i cant wait to take macy. i can buy
discounted tix at the itt office.
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 12-28-07 14:38pm
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maybe i will just stick to my six flags
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