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NotEnoughForAnyone

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Posted: 12-27-07 15:13pm

Guys, I'm feeling like poo today. . . I had such a bad night last night. I was up until 4 in the morning because I couldn't sleep. A bunch of stuff went down with that guy that was living with me and my family. He did some inapropriate things that made me feel uncomfortable. I told my mom and she decided it was time for him to move out. I am staying at my old bosses house because she is on vacation. Well I didn't want to be the reason he got kicked out because I felt bad that he might not have a place to live but my mother insisted he leave. I left before he got home and my mother left him a message to come pick his things up. He called me asking what was going on but eeryone told me to stop answering the phone and I did. Well he got upset and came over to my old bosses house and was banging on the door and window saying he just wanted to talk to me and that I was being unfair. He said he apologized for what he did, Why am I doing this to him. . . went on for 15 minutes before the cops got there. then he yelled "thanks for calling the cops Melissa!" they made him leave. I couldn't sleep last night. Sorry this is so jumbled and kind of beating around the bush. I just feel like total crap that everything got blow up that way and. . .ugh, I need someone to tell me it was for the better even though I didn't fully tell you the story. . .

wow, I don't make any sense. Just ranting. sorry!
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Becky

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Posted: 12-27-07 15:15pm

i don't really know the full story but sorry you don't feel good.

hope it all gets sorted out
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yellow ribbon

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Posted: 12-27-07 15:26pm

um anyone crazy enough to go beating on a door at night is not someone you need in your life. hes a grown up he should be supporting himself and get his own apartment
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hopefulmjz

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Posted: 12-27-07 15:29pm

I'm sorry Mel!!
I'm sure it really is for the best that he doesn't live with your family anymore. And it's his own fault for messing up that living arrangement. *hugs* You know you can PM me or whatever anytime you need/want to talk. I got your back!
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musikmaker

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Posted: 12-27-07 15:34pm

Ewww, that sucks. You totally did the right thing though.
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young Girl

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Posted: 12-27-07 15:39pm

im sorry mel

i was up til 4 too i know how you feel
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HcoBrunette06

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Posted: 12-27-07 15:46pm

I'm sorry mel, I Just got out of the shower and just got your pm! I pm'd you back if you're still on! I Love you!
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Bridget

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Posted: 12-27-07 15:53pm

wow, sounds nuts! i hope he leaves you alone now!

pm me!
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michelle1981

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Posted: 12-27-07 16:09pm

Nut job!! Sorry Melly!
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NotEnoughForAnyone

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Posted: 12-27-07 16:47pm

Thank you laides for the support. I don't want to house sit for my old boss anymore but I have to because she wont be home until the 5th of January. I don't want to be at my house either. . . I don't know where I want to be, i just know it's not here.
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hopefulmjz

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Posted: 12-27-07 17:21pm

You can come to my house Mel! We're about to go up to my parents house for dinner....do you like ribs? Fresh green beans? lord knows what else my mom made. She only makes 1 meal a day and when she does, it's a lot!
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NotEnoughForAnyone

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Posted: 12-27-07 17:33pm

Smile that would be nice. thanks Mandi! Lol

I just do not want to be around here. I'm kinda scared of him now and I feel bad. . . man i'm retarded. I feel like I messed everything up.
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newmommy07

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Posted: 12-27-07 17:56pm

NotEnoughForAnyone wrote:
Smile that would be nice. thanks Mandi! Lol

I just do not want to be around here. I'm kinda scared of him now and I feel bad. . . man i'm retarded. I feel like I messed everything up.



Your not retarted and its not your fault. I don't know exactly whats going on but I hope things clear up and you do better. He sounds like a very immature a$$. Goodluck! Very
Happy
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NotEnoughForAnyone

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Posted: 12-28-07 10:24am

Thanks hun! I feel a little better today. I went and talked to him about everything and we are ok now but now he is living in his car downtown. . . I can't do anything about it and I really need to start feeling like I have to be everyones savior.

thanks for all the replies you guys, your great even though I only told you part of it!

XoXoXoXoXoXoXoXoXo
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-Tanya-

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Posted: 12-28-07 11:13am

I'm sorry about that guy.

I understand about feeling like you are responsible for helping people to a point where it is a drain on yourself and you sacrafice your own well being to help.

It's a really hard call because there is always the pull to do the right thing, and the guilt when you pick doing the right thing for yourself instead.

Glad you are feeling better today!
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NotEnoughForAnyone

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Posted: 12-28-07 11:29am

Thanks Tanya. I just re read whaty I wrote and realized I wrote start being a savior instead of stop, but you still understood what I was saying. Uh, thanks again Wink
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