NotEnoughForAnyone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2007 Posts: 181 Location: Sunny ol' Florida
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Poopy
Posted: 12-27-07 15:13pm
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Guys, I'm feeling like poo today. . . I
had such a bad night last night. I was up
until 4 in the morning because I couldn't
sleep. A bunch of stuff went down with
that guy that was living with me and my
family. He did some inapropriate things
that made me feel uncomfortable. I told my
mom and she decided it was time for him to
move out. I am staying at my old bosses
house because she is on vacation. Well I
didn't want to be the reason he got kicked
out because I felt bad that he might not
have a place to live but my mother
insisted he leave. I left before he got
home and my mother left him a message to
come pick his things up. He called me
asking what was going on but eeryone told
me to stop answering the phone and I did.
Well he got upset and came over to my old
bosses house and was banging on the door
and window saying he just wanted to talk
to me and that I was being unfair. He said
he apologized for what he did, Why am I
doing this to him. . . went on for 15
minutes before the cops got there. then he
yelled "thanks for calling the cops
Melissa!" they made him leave. I couldn't
sleep last night. Sorry this is so jumbled
and kind of beating around the bush. I
just feel like total crap that everything
got blow up that way and. . .ugh, I need
someone to tell me it was for the better
even though I didn't fully tell you the
story. . .
wow, I don't make any sense. Just ranting.
sorry!
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Becky
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Joined: 01 Jan 2006 Posts: 6230 Location: London, England
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Posted: 12-27-07 15:15pm
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i don't really know the full story but
sorry you don't feel good.
hope it all gets sorted out
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yellow ribbon
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Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
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Posted: 12-27-07 15:26pm
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um anyone crazy enough to go beating on a
door at night is not someone you need in
your life. hes a grown up he should be
supporting himself and get his own
apartment
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hopefulmjz
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Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 4777 Location: , USA
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Posted: 12-27-07 15:29pm
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I'm sorry Mel!!
I'm sure it really is for the best that he
doesn't live with your family anymore. And
it's his own fault for messing up that
living arrangement. *hugs* You know you
can PM me or whatever anytime you
need/want to talk. I got your back!
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musikmaker
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Joined: 30 May 2006 Posts: 1778 Location: Chicago, US
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Posted: 12-27-07 15:34pm
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Ewww, that sucks. You totally did the
right thing though.
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-27-07 15:39pm
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im sorry mel
i was up til 4 too i know how you feel
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 12-27-07 15:46pm
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I'm sorry mel, I Just got out of the
shower and just got your pm! I pm'd you
back if you're still on! I Love you!
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Bridget
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Posted: 12-27-07 15:53pm
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wow, sounds nuts! i hope he leaves you
alone now!
pm me!
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michelle1981
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NotEnoughForAnyone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2007 Posts: 181 Location: Sunny ol' Florida
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Posted: 12-27-07 16:47pm
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Thank you laides for the support. I don't
want to house sit for my old boss anymore
but I have to because she wont be home
until the 5th of January. I don't want to
be at my house either. . . I don't know
where I want to be, i just know it's not
here.
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 12-27-07 17:21pm
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You can come to my house Mel! We're about
to go up to my parents house for
dinner....do you like ribs? Fresh green
beans? lord knows what else my mom made.
She only makes 1 meal a day and when she
does, it's a lot!
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NotEnoughForAnyone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2007 Posts: 181 Location: Sunny ol' Florida
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Posted: 12-27-07 17:33pm
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 that would be nice.
thanks Mandi! Lol
I just do not want to be around here. I'm
kinda scared of him now and I feel bad. .
. man i'm retarded. I feel like I messed
everything up.
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newmommy07
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Joined: 24 Sep 2007 Posts: 691 Location: Sparks, NV, 89434
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Posted: 12-27-07 17:56pm
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| NotEnoughForAnyone
wrote: | that would be nice.
thanks Mandi! Lol
I just do not want to be around here. I'm
kinda scared of him now and I feel bad. .
. man i'm retarded. I feel like I messed
everything
up. |
Your not retarted and its not your fault.
I don't know exactly whats going on but I
hope things clear up and you do better. He
sounds like a very immature a$$. Goodluck!

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NotEnoughForAnyone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2007 Posts: 181 Location: Sunny ol' Florida
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Posted: 12-28-07 10:24am
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Thanks hun! I feel a little better today.
I went and talked to him about everything
and we are ok now but now he is living in
his car downtown. . . I can't do anything
about it and I really need to start
feeling like I have to be everyones
savior.
thanks for all the replies you guys, your
great even though I only told you part of
it!
XoXoXoXoXoXoXoXoXo
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-Tanya-
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2007 Posts: 607
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Posted: 12-28-07 11:13am
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I'm sorry about that guy.
I understand about feeling like you are
responsible for helping people to a point
where it is a drain on yourself and you
sacrafice your own well being to help.
It's a really hard call because there is
always the pull to do the right thing, and
the guilt when you pick doing the right
thing for yourself instead.
Glad you are feeling better today!
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NotEnoughForAnyone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2007 Posts: 181 Location: Sunny ol' Florida
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Posted: 12-28-07 11:29am
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Thanks Tanya. I just re read whaty I wrote
and realized I wrote start being a savior
instead of stop, but you still understood
what I was saying. Uh, thanks again 
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