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Q: What Away to Ruin Christmas..
asked by: tinkinpink84 on December 24th, 2007
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Jason decides to talk bills on christmas eve, and i messed up big time, they are all paid on time and everything but none are paid off, i havent save adime since hes been gone and now hes mad and he has every right to be mad. And i could have managed money a bit better and even saved money, brandy spent alot f her time over her, she never brought diapers over for he kids, she stayed overnight even for 2 weeks. So iwas buying food for 6 people, she basicaly used my diapers my wipes, my foood , my juice , she even borrowed my car when she lost her keys to drive all the way to regensburg so she ven used my gas and my phone to cal her mom and this guy zach racked up my phone bill, she was always on my internet so icant even talk to my husband on there, hell she even used my tampons she used nothing of her own. She said she would help with that phone bil she never did she ner helped out money wise, so when i could have ben saving miney i was spending more cuz of her. I know she used me , friends wlak all over me thats why i hate having friends isem to always get used all the time.
But evidently i suck at everything i cant manage money, i cant discipline my own kids according to jason otherwise jospeh wouldnt throw tantrums in stores, i even suck at having sex according to jason. I feel like my mom a disgusting fat blob who cant even pay bills right, jason just kinda put adowner on everything.
Sorry for rambling i dont have real life friends to talk to about this sorta stuff without hem spreadin rumors or something.
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tdr
replied on December 24th, 2007
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I'm so sorry you're feeling this way Diane.
Regardless of what is going on in Afghanistan with Jason, that does NOT give him the right to say such things to you.
As for Brandy, I'd dump her as a "friend." You deserve so much better.
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tinkinpink84
replied on December 24th, 2007
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oh i did dump brandy, i dont talk toher anymore i sorta messed it up myself but it works out haha, i was talking to my husbands frien don myspace and i had written about that im not a promiscuous person and acheater like brandy and that her kids wer annoying cuz her kid smears poop on my walls and pees n everything and i was showing her what his friend was talking to me about forgeting that iwrote that and she saw it but i dont care, i was used. But grr jason makes me mad , he made my cry on christmas eve. But im ok now, it just the past few days ive felt realy down about myself and mybody image more then ever so this just like topped it off and sent me over the edge so to speak. days like this make me dread him coming home.
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tdr
replied on December 24th, 2007
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That is freaking awful. I am so sorry you have to deal with that.
Maybe he needs to be reminded that you uprooted your entire life to move to Germany with him, only for him to be deployed?
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tinkinpink84
replied on December 24th, 2007
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yeay but at the same time the money situation is my faut i could have handled it alot better and stuff but i didnt and i know i messed up, but ugh then hes saying maybe i need to send u back to th states for alittle while i guess so he can fix everything, i didnt spend money on myslf while hes been gone barely, its the kids and the house. i was trying to get he house looking nice and buying the kids clothes and stuff and geting him christmas presents. But now i feel like christmas wil be ruined. i offerd to sell my laptop, i dont need it. but hes like stop being stupid, but eh whatever. Of all days he picks christmas to get mad at me. The day when everyone in the world is hapy and spending time with the family i feel hated and that icant do anything right.
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hopefulmjz
replied on December 24th, 2007
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Well that's a poopy situation with Brandy. She needs to be smacked
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tdr
replied on December 24th, 2007
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Honestly, it doesn't matter whether or not you screwed up, he still has no right to make you feel this way.
ESPECIALLY on Christmas. And ESPECIALLY the day before Jordynne's first birthday.
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tinkinpink84
replied on December 24th, 2007
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yeah but im not friends with her anymore, i should have never gotten back friends with her but hen i woulda never been good friends with tanja, so i suppose everything happens for a reason. but ugh jason just i duno he ruined christmas.
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tdr
replied on December 24th, 2007
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Smack him, too.
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tinkinpink84
replied on December 24th, 2007
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tdr wrote:
Honestly, it doesn't matter whether or not you screwed up, he still has no right to make you feel this way.
ESPECIALLY on Christmas. And ESPECIALLY the day before Jordynne's first birthday.

i know, he was like when i get back your geting a job , the only job i can really get is like at burger king, and all the money to that would go straight o daycare not really anything extra left to help out at all so its stupid. Then like he wants to al of a sudden change the subject and be alll happy like we never talked about the bills in the first place, but i cant just al of a sudden be like all happy.
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tinkinpink84
replied on December 24th, 2007
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tdr wrote:
Smack him, too.

lol
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hopefulmjz
replied on December 24th, 2007
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Smack their heads together!
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O0o0h_baby
replied on December 24th, 2007
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I'm really sorry you're going through this right now. I hope it gets better soon.
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tinkinpink84
replied on December 24th, 2007
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haha, im done with brandy. but jason just realy realy upset me then hes like now your crying, all mad, but whats he want me to do. I seriously feel like my mom something i dont wana be, she is overweight by alot, my dads always yelling ather for messing up the bills, and im fat and cant manage bills either. so woop dee doo. Im sorry i spent money on the kids, i spoil them i cant help it. lucky for him im never having kids agin, after this IUD comes out ima get another one maybe in the states they wil have a 10 year one.
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tinkinpink84
replied on December 24th, 2007
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O0o0h_baby wrote:
I'm really sorry you're going through this right now. I hope it gets better soon.

thanks, so do i , in time it will.
Im glad i have all you guys to talk to though luvcomp
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tdr
replied on December 24th, 2007
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tinkinpink84 wrote:

Im glad i have all you guys to talk to though luvcomp

Well said, sista. I am so glad we all have each other here, regardless of everything.

voices
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tinkinpink84
replied on December 24th, 2007
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yepp, i lub my ehealth! THats joseph talk he says ah lub yew, hehe hes sooo cute , hes picked up so much words since jason left its crazy, he knows who spongebob and elmo are now too. I was lookin forward to jason coming home and him seing the kids and how mch they changed but now ugh i wish he could just stay there for another 6 mths.
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