Hey everyone, sorry if this sounds petty.. I feel like im back in school lol (not dissin highschool, but just sayin). Most of u proly dont know, but me and jason (not the father) were together sence dec... But starting in march things were on and off because I didnt know if iwanted to be with him (partially because he made some mean rude comments to me different times.. And part just cause he wasnt making me too happy wether it was his fault or not) anyhow. . Then I broke it off, went back etc etc.. Well about 3 weeks ago I broke it off for good (almost a month ago!) but we still talked on the phone and everything on and off.. And lately the past 2 weeks its been everyday talkin to him.. I thought I still liked him, he still wants to be with me, and I just didnt want a boyfriend right now. .. .Well the other day I stopped by his house for the first time that ive seen him in a month..And the feelings just werent there?! It was like 'poof' and they were gone. Ididnt feel a connection.. I didnt wanna be close to him or kiss him or anything...How could feelings just dissapear like that? I mean I know I care about him alot. . . But I feel bad now cuz I prolly confused him, cause now he keeps asking to hang out and thinks I like him and wanna be together again.. But I dont know what to say to him, I feel bad , like I lead him by talking to him sense we broke up....Im confused how my feelings could go away so fast (very unlike me) what do u think I should do? I feel llike a bi*ch. I dont wanna lead him on.. But I still do enjoy talkin to him....... Thanks!
Could it be your pregnant girl hormones?? Lol cause I know with me I miss mike all day long then when he comes home sometimes he angers me off ... Not big time anything bad... Its just me not wanting to be happy I guess? Just feeling like a !**@! mood... Maybe thats it... But if he said mean things to you.. Are you sure he won't do that again?
Oh my gosh that happens to me sometimes too.. I mean its not bc im pregnant tho it just happens. I miss jason so much then when I see him I get pissed at him or feel depressed. I love him with all my heart and dont really hate him, but someitmes I just get pissed or depressed for no reason.. Weird..
Lol im not bi-polar. . Its not like I hate him one min and like the next.. . I think it came over time. .Just quick. I dont dis-like him. . But when im around him its like the feelings are just gone.. But im afriad if I end it for good and stop talkin to him I will want him back (u know, u always want what u dont have) maybe jordans right, maybe I do just realize I have more important things in life then a boyfriend... I have my son now. . Could be preg hormones too, today I got upset and cried for no reason (prolly preg related).. I dont know . Im confused! But I cant just stop returning his calls and not answering cuz I feel bad, and like I said I dont dislike him..... And I dont know if he would say mean things again, he prolly would, it happened more then once when we were fighting.. But they were just things a boyfriend shouldnt say to a preg girl or girl in general.
The same thing happened to me once!!! I started dating this guy, I lost me best friend over it and my mom for awhile. At first I thought he was so great but after awhile I just suddenly hated him! He was annoying and I felt dirty if he would try to kiss me. I think you should move on cause if the feelings aint there they just aint!