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Q: Bf Is Back And Forth About Baby....help Me Walk Away..........

asked by: tinsel08 on December 24th, 2007

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I am 24 weeks pregnant and my Boyfriend is still really struggling with the idea of being a father. He has gone as far as telling me that he doesnt love me and then has asked me back. I love him, and i know that he has great potential. But i think the only reason he wants me back at times is because he is lonely and then he fears that he will regret leaving the baby.
I dont think he wants to be with me, whether the baby is here or not. Stupid part about all this... I dont want to do this alone so i keep going back.. How do i walk away? At times i believe i would be better off doing this by myself. But each time he does this, i go back....
I wish i had the strength to move myself out and not get emotional and come back...
Advice please!!!!

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TeenMommyofTwo

replied on January 13th, 2008

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I wish there was a easy way to walk away when the love of your life does that too you. But think about it, would you raither have two kids by him? or just one. I know thats harsh but some guys do that, they have no responiblity and our jerks. And like games. Guys can be great but there is so many factors. and he's playing games with you. And you and the baby are better then that

cko1079

replied on January 31st, 2008

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Oh, honey!

My younger sister was in a very similar situatuation a few years back. Thankfully, she got rid of the worthless a-hole for good.
A question to ask yourself..WHY do you love him? What loveable qualities does he have? How would you feel if your younger sister or good friend was involved with somone exactly like him?
Honey, you and your baby deserve better. Best of luck to you.

Celeste

o0Heather

replied on January 31st, 2008

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Sorry your having such a rough time during your pregnancy. You can be seperated and still go through this together. Maybe if he agree's you should seperate tell him you dont have to be together to be the babies father and help me through this. Maybe he could share this with you without the added stress of making your rocky relationship work. Try to have a healthy seperation, but I know its not that easy. How is the relationship other than his cold feet, is also treating you poorly? I think you probably know in your heart what you should do. Try to draw the strength think about whats best in the long run for you and the baby.
Good luck hon

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