personally id be pissssssssssssssed

but maybe hes doing this on purpose and he will end up suprising you on x mas or something?

he could have atleast made a card or whatever. did he say why he didnt give you anything or what?

I highly doubt he's surprising me on x-mas, and besides ill be at my grandmas all day.
Ya thats what i thought card, dollar store stuffed animal, pice of candy lol anything.
He didnt say why he didnt get me anything, just acted like my gift was him being there or something, he opend his gift got excited said thank you, than said he didnt have anything to give me, and asked if i wanted to go watch a movie.

lol

awkward


"sorry didnt get ya caca"
"wanna go watch a movie"

lol

man i have no idea

if i were you (take into consideration i can be a b*t(h lol) i would have been like "YO!!! wheres MY PRESENT????"

LOL trust me, in my head i was freaking out and calling him all kinds of nasty names!

but i wanted time to think about it before i said anything so i didnt over react and feel bad about it later... which i seem to do alot lol

Just from this i picture a future with him being like the tv shows, where its your bday, or some holliday and the guy comes home and is like o crap! happy ____ ill be right back! and runs to the gas station to give you a candy bar and fake flower, not only will i only be getting sex once in a blue moon, but i wont get gifts either lol..

LOL

thank god travis knows how to buy some presents

gawd i hope hes suprising you or something
boys are unpredicatble you never know

It kinda depends on how long you have been dating. I know our first christmas he did not really want to exchange because we had only been together for a few months.

I would sit him down and talk to him. Ask him what he is feeling. Their may be issues you do not know about.

your lucky you found a good guy! Sad thing is he's the best guy ive ever dated, i usualy attract the psycopath, stalker, over possesive, im gunna prepose just so no one else can have you type of guys lol.

I hope he's gunna surprise me, ill let you know if he does.. Until than ill just try not to kill him and keep possotive, until after x-mas lol. ugh, guys are so frustrating! Thanks for your help!

Iridescent, we have been dating for 1 year and 2 months or close to

Did he get you anything for the first year? I woudl honestly ask him, but wait until after Christmas.


Side not, my guy did get me some gifts (with no help from me) and this year is looking to be pretty good too)

Ya last year he got me a teady bear

I think your right to think about your future. I think most of us women don't.
Men don't change unless they want to. We can't change them.
You have every right to be upset. You both talked about it and he didn't follow through with your planes.
Did he get other people presants? That would really upset me!
It sounds like you care alot about him though. Its up to you how you handle it.
Try to have a good x-mas any way. And I hope it all works out for you.
Let us know.

I care about him alot, and i just dont think he cares about me as much as i do him

Well we stoped by best buy so that he could pick up a new game he wanted today, and he's walking twards the back and starts looking for a cd he wanted and he's all oh ya! you wanted a cd huh? so he's like okay hands me 2 cd's and tells me to choose, and i tould him i know my mom got me one of them and didnt want to get one if she already got me one, and he's like oh its okay. and I kept telling him no its okay ill just stick with the one my mom got me, and he kept bugging me till i chose a cd.

So now he got me somthing..... But im even more pissed! now i know he wasnt surprising me with anything cute on x-mas. And it seems he just randomly choose something just so he got something for me!

You should sit down with him and gently tell him how you feel about the situation. Tell him how you appreciate his gift, but was hoping for something special and ask if he'll work on maybe putting together a surprise or a nicer gift next year. I'm sorry it happened this way this Christmas

Yeah I would say definatly talk to him about it... Maybe even bring it up in a joking way and see what he says and then start the conversation that way?

I would definately be a little ticked off. Maybe you should just talk to him and find out whats going on (like everyone suggested) = )

Maybe there is an explanation. He should have at least thought of you or mentioned why to you, it seems very inconsiderate. Talk to him, you wont know until you ask

Oh my gosh, you need to be straight-forward with him and tell him he is acting like a DUMBA**! Ok maybe not those exact words, but it sounds like he is just an oblivious guy that doesn't get it. Tell him that Christmas is the time of year to splurge on your loved ones and show you care. Tell him that his strange gift gestures read to u as him not caring, so is this true? (He better have a good explanation!)

My guy is broke, but he still bought me shoes and an expensive sweater only because he knew I wanted it. It's all in the heart. He could have at least written you a song or a card or something!

A lot of times guys need a big smack on the back of the head because they are SO clueless. You really have to spell it out for them, even though you shouldn't have to. You have to call them out on their mistakes or they will keep doing it! And if they don't change, then maybe they are not right for you because they don't care enough about your feelings. Especially when it comes to a thoughtful Christmas gift. (How hard is that?!)

Remember, it's better to be single than to be with a careless jerk.

o i would be pissed... beat him up at the least!!!