preggie meggie
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Broken Up
Posted: 12-23-07 14:48pm
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 Well
guys I just wanted to tell you all Thank
you so much! Jarad and I had been together
for 8 years and married for one. I asked
you all about TTC at such a young age and
you all said "DONT DO IT". I know I argued
with you all and tried to convince you
that I was right, I know that I was wrong
I think I was actually trying to convince
myself. Well I went to work today and
brought Jarad into town with me(because we
only have on car right now...mines a
piece) to go to his famlies for the day.
He just called and said that hes done and
he will be out to the house Wen. to pick
up all his it. I feel like my life just
walked out the door, and I dont think I
can catch it....I think its actually taken
my breath along with it. OMG I'm so
stupid. 
Any ways I just wanted to say sorry for
arguing and Thank you for all the advice.
(Speacil thanks to girlfriend and F
Shock)
Megan
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-23-07 15:20pm
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hey megan
im so sorry abuot this
why is he leaving? do you know?
sometimes life has a funny way of saying i
told you so. sometimes you look back and
say "oh thats why that happened"
im glad your not stuck in even a more
horrible position (pregnant) right now
because that would make things extremely
hard for you 
you know im here if you need me
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 12-23-07 15:46pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | hey megan
im so sorry abuot this
why is he leaving? do you know?
sometimes life has a funny way of saying i
told you so. sometimes you look back and
say "oh thats why that happened"
im glad your not stuck in even a more
horrible position (pregnant) right now
because that would make things extremely
hard for you
you know im here if you need
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Im sorry I was so horrable to you before!
Ahh I just wish I could stop crying...and
the a** called me at work so now im crying
at the front desk while trying to greet
people. *sigh* He didnt say why. I heard a
girl in the background saying somthing
about me being a bitc*. But I dont know if
that means anything. I know we were having
a problem with one of his cousins friends
likeing him and trying to get him to leave
me and stupid stuff.
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Posted: 12-23-07 16:36pm
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I don't recall you being anything but
friendly on these threads...anyway,,,
I AM SO SORRY!!!!!!! I know the feeling
you are having. It feels like a giant
hole in your gut. When that happened to
me in the past, I felt like I was falling
off a cliff. The worst was when I was
engaged (prior to being married to my
husband) and my then fiance announced to
me, six weeks before our wedding, that he
was gay. My whole world crumbled. My
future was gone. I was terrified and
shocked. It was a horrible, horrible
feeling.
I hope you have family around to get you
through this. PM me or others on here
anytime.
***HUGS***
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Posted: 12-23-07 16:47pm
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You know what else? I bet the reason you
couldn't get pregnant had nothing to do
with you. 40% of the time (or more) the
problem is with the man.
I'm going to make a prediction right now:
In the (not too far) future, when you meet
your REAL soulmate, and get married, and
ttc, you will get pregnant right away.
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 12-23-07 16:59pm
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| futureshock
wrote: | I don't recall you being
anything but friendly on these
threads...anyway,,,
I AM SO SORRY!!!!!!! I know the feeling
you are having. It feels like a giant
hole in your gut. When that happened to
me in the past, I felt like I was falling
off a cliff. The worst was when I was
engaged (prior to being married to my
husband) and my then fiance announced to
me, six weeks before our wedding, that he
was gay. My whole world crumbled. My
future was gone. I was terrified and
shocked. It was a horrible, horrible
feeling.
I hope you have family around to get you
through this. PM me or others on here
anytime.
***HUGS*** |
Thank you! i do have a wounderful family
to help me. I love his family so much and
I hope this dosnt ruen things between us.
Jarad and I were friends befor and he was
my BEST friend. I just dont understand, I
just dont know... I'm going after work to
talk to him, I hope we can figure things
out! I will up date you all tuesday!
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 12-23-07 17:05pm
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| futureshock
wrote: | You know what else? I bet
the reason you couldn't get pregnant had
nothing to do with you. 40% of the time
(or more) the problem is with the man.
I'm going to make a prediction right now:
In the (not too far) future, when you meet
your REAL soulmate, and get married, and
ttc, you will get pregnant right away.
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You are so sweet to me! I think you may be
right! I'm not in any real hurry to be
with anyone els at the momment and I dont
think I even know how to date anymore. But
I heart all of you on here and I'm so
glade I got to "meet' you guys! I think I
will just stick to living for me and keep
my horse thing going. And I will try to
keep up with you guys on here so you
always know where Im at!
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-23-07 17:19pm
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she was defensive but then again so was i
the first time i came on these boards.
megan your a typical teenage girl. we get
mad when we hear things we dont want to
hear becuse we always think we are right.
but thats ok because it takes a prety big
person to come on here and admit they were
acting childish and say sorry for it. i
know how you feel honey
its so hard
i cant imajine being with someone for SO
long. im sorry that hes doing this
screw it
your better than that
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Posted: 12-24-07 01:56am
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Oh honey, that's awful! I'm so sorry, what
a horrible thing to have happen,
especially right before the holidays.
I've been there. When my daughter's father
left me I really thought my whole world
was going to fall apart. You know how
every time you think of him you just want
to throw up it hurts so bad? I remember
that, vividly.
Fortunately, it fades. It takes time and
your angry, and devastated and beyond
miserable, but it fades. You'll be fine,
you're a strong woman and I'm sure the
right man will see you (and how wonderful
you really are) when you're ready for him.
I'm sure right now that is absolutely no
consollation, but it's true.
I hope you take some time to really feel
this break up, work through it and get
over it. You don't deserve to have someone
treat you this way.
Take care of yourself and know people are
thinking of you and wishing you the best.
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 12-25-07 12:35pm
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Thanks guys! i went over to his aunts to
talk to him after work and he was upstairs
in beb with another girl. Im so mad I cant
see straight. He said he wants to talk
thing over and make sure we cant be
together, but if thats what he wants WHY
did sleep with somone els?
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Posted: 12-25-07 14:58pm
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I'm so sorry. You deserve SO much better.
Even though it hurts now you will be so
much better off in the long run.
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Posted: 12-25-07 19:53pm
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| ttcno117
wrote: | | Thanks guys! i went over to
his aunts to talk to him after work and he
was upstairs in beb with another girl. Im
so mad I cant see straight. He said he
wants to talk thing over and make sure we
cant be together, but if thats what he
wants WHY did sleep with somone
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OMG! Did you walk in on them or did his
aunt tell you about it? And then how long
after that encounter did he say he wanted
to talk things over with you???
Did you know the girl? I would've
strangled him!
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Posted: 12-26-07 19:32pm
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| futureshock
wrote: | | ttcno117
wrote: | | Thanks guys! i went over to
his aunts to talk to him after work and he
was upstairs in beb with another girl. Im
so mad I cant see straight. He said he
wants to talk thing over and make sure we
cant be together, but if thats what he
wants WHY did sleep with somone
els? |
OMG! Did you walk in on them or did his
aunt tell you about it? And then how long
after that encounter did he say he wanted
to talk things over with you???
Did you know the girl? I would've
strangled
him! |
Whats so messed up is that I was down
stairs talking to his aunt and cousin
about everything and then I went up stares
(in that time no one had told me Danyell
was there or that they were up there) I
walked in on them. I was so pissed I felt
like throughing up.
I said well I guess your a fast mover...we
havent even signed divorce papers yet.
(the whole time bawling) and Danyall was
saying that she was sorry and that she
didnt know we were really married she
thought that his family was just playing
with her. (She just became friends with on
of his cousins, we had only meet her once
before)
I hit her when she tried to walk up to me
and i hit him when he tried to keep me
from going down the stairs.... so i did
get them both back. He said he wanted to
talk AFTER i caught him.
He is now back at home with me and we
arent talking so much yet. im NEVER going
to his aunts house again. To me that was
SO disrespectful! ahh
Well tty all later!
♥Megan
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Posted: 12-26-07 21:25pm
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Wasn't your husband even more
disrespectful? I hope he's claiming
temporary insanity.
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Posted: 12-28-07 18:26pm
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| futureshock
wrote: | | Wasn't your husband even
more disrespectful? I hope he's claiming
temporary
insanity. |
O.o yes he deff. was! No no not insanity,
hes claiming it was okay because we were
"Broken up"...so the H.e.l.l. what we are
still married! AhH he errks me. Any ways
we are getting along a bit better! Thank
god but its going to take me a long time
to trust him again!
♥Megan
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Posted: 12-28-07 18:47pm
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Tell him you are going to sleep with
someone just to even things up.
(I realize that's immature, but oh well,
lol!)
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 12-28-07 20:02pm
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Lol. He would die! But o-well right? I
couldnt actually do it thought. I could
scare him by saying it though...Lol.
(muahaha)
♥Megan
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Posted: 12-28-07 20:07pm
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rofl!
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Posted: 12-28-07 22:29pm
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So are you going to stay with him and work
things out or dump him?
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