you can get it if she had it, that is why you need pretoection
every woman and every man have fluids comming out at all times during sex even if you dont ejaculate
as far as i iknow there are no symptoms that will tell you you hgave it or not, you have to get tested, and it can be like 5 or 6 years after the fact until it shows up on tests too
it can not be cured yet, but it can be slowed down and the symptoms can be greatly eased
good luck, and from now on if you dont want to have to worry you either should only have sex with someone you are in a commited relationship with or use pretection every time for everything sexual
~alicia~