I just recently found out that my husband was cheating on me. I found it on his emails from this couple (husband and wife). The husband would watch my husband and his wife at first and then join in. He has also posted a lot of ads on the internet looking for men and women. In some of the emails from the men he has asked them how big they were (when the guys would email back they would include pics of it and the size and my husband would always respond with a compliment about it) and if they also had a woman to bring. So, i am not for sure as he won't admit to it if he is gay or has had sex with another man. I know he is a swinger, but is he gay as well or have gay intentions? Any advise or help would be appreciated. Thank you