ok there are many issues with my body right now and I need to try to get them straight. I have been having unprotected sex for 1 year and my boyfriend and I have not gotten pregnant, nor have I ever been pregnant. My cycles were always reg until I went on Depo. I took Depo for 4 years and never had a period. I stopped Depo last Nov. In Jan I bled for 1 month. Feb, had spotting. Then no periods. Sept had a regular period on the 4th, then Oct it came the same day. Yeah finally regular!!

Nope. Nov I started on the 11th and I have not gotten a period for Dec. I am not preg, I took a test Monday. I have been taking Melatonin for sleep and in the last 3 months it feels like I havent ovulated. But I have the symptoms of ovualtion right now. I just read in a post on hear that Melatonin can stop ovulation. So now I will stop taking that.

So my question is how can I get my cycles regular? I cannot take hormonal B/C. I would like to know when I ovulate, but why dont I ovulate regularly? It should be once a month but it seems like once ever couple of months. SHould I be worried? Should I see a fertility specialist?
I know I can temp and buy the kits, but do my periods have to be regular to start temping and charting and stuff?

I hope this makes sense. I am starting to get really concerned that I may not be able to have kids. My boyfriend is too....