2-3 hrs?

thats a really long time

how long does he last now?

like 30 min

thats completly normal

but sumtimes not even dat long

is it because he is getting tired of the samething. i'm scared because if thats the case he may cheat on me with someone else

i forgot to tell this part he get off hard before he nut

nah i think 2-3 hurs is just a really long time lol
but i dunno
he mightbe getting tired of it do you have sex alot?

we have sex like twice a week

so do u think he is getting tired of having sex with me or just sex period

i dunno it could be either

why not ask him?

No. don't have that idea. If i restrain my ejaculation, I always last as long as i would like. But if let ejaculate, I would feel so tired, and can not have more times any longer. even still get in my gf's vagina, it won't last as long.

If the guy loves you he won't cheat on you. Having a ejeculation sooner rather than 2 hours later is not going to make him decide to cheat on you. If it does then that guy is a jerk and not worth your time.

Does he have any new stress in his life? Hows work for him? What about family issues? Have you two been fighting?

I think 30 min is normal. Hell 30 min of straight vaginal sex would wear me out!!!! I dont think I can last that long.

Anyways....My boyfriend last 10 min sometimes and others 1 hr. It just depends on our mood, the last time we had sex, and whether or not he stops himself from coming. I dont think you should be too worried unless there are issues in your relationship. And just ask him

naw we are good we don't have any problems but it is like sometimes we have sex for an hour n other for like 10 to 30 min n some for a hour

Did he say its a problem?

My boyfriend can last a really long time but if we don't switch positions then it will be over sooner.

I think the longer you are with your partner the shorter it gets. I don't think he'll cheat. Why don't you try different things, like oral sex until he ejaculates or rub off on him and talk dirty to him. My boyfriend don't last a long time but when I really want him I just start telling him how wet I get when he's touching me and I perform oral sex and touch myself then I get on top, backwards, sideways anything just to make different moves... don't freak out remember you still have a lot to discover..

Guy's perspective:
When a guy doesn't last as long as he used to, then I recommend that you foreplay alittle more. Guys usually get a pre ejactulation when foreplaying that helps them last longer during sex. As well, the 10 to 30 mins times you guys had sex, are you both going super fast or taking your time? If your going super fast, then I recommend slow down more. Remember, a guys penis before ejactulation is a pump, by having sex more and more, your building up the pump. The faster the sex, the faster the penis gets pumped up if you know what I mean.

Your problem can also mean that your doing a good job with him. For example, you know his sweet spots or positions that are making him go quicker.

i think you probably just know what he likes and you focus on it. it's not a bad thing, but it can def. make a difference in how long he lasts. i can make my guy finish in 2 minutes, or a half an hour. it all depends on what "buttons" i push.

well i would say yall are all damn lucky. my boyfriend barely lasts 10 minutes unless he's drunk and either way ive never ever gotten an orgasm off him. its like when he gets his off, hes done for the night....