well, first off. How old are you? Second, What does she plan on doing? How old is the father? The most you can do right now is just be there for her. Help her make the wise decision.. which at her age I would say is an abortion (i don't normally believe in it but at her age)...At 13 being pregnant can do serious damage to her body and to the baby!

The best you could do is tell her to tell her parents! Since she is so young, it would be very hard for her to do anything without her parents. I agree with princess, that young she could seriously hurt herself and the baby if she tries to carry to term. I don't like suggesting abortion, but again, her age.

has she been to a dr? do her parents know? how old is she and wheres her bf?

she needs an abortion. shes 13 flippin years old
thats extremely dangerous

it is very dangerous... he's messaging me and I'm trying to help him as much as I can...

tell him she needs to get to an abortion clinic asap
wheres she located at? ill look up clinics for her if she wants

I'm telling him that... I'm not sure of her location.... I'll ask when he messages me back... I'm really scared for this girl.

and she is in meriden ct

ok... we now know where she is..

would she be willing to get an abortion?

god I hope she is... I hate reading about girls that young getting pregnant... especially because they don't understand what it can do to their body

girlfriend, i think you would be good to email him.. he asked for ways to ask her to get an abortion and I started him off with a few..you may be able to give him more to help convince her...

okie dokie ill be sure and e mail him the places she can go to get help and such

gosh
she could die

I know, I told him that.. it's so sad. Her body isn't ready for this

om i pmed you the abortion clinics

does she have someone who can take her to one?

yes

om well i pmed you the names and location of the clinics
she can go to planned parenthood
they have free care for ow and they can help her with her options

I wonder why she needs to be talked into having an abortion? Why does she want to be pregnant? At this point I'd want to know how clear her thinking was.

well so far no one ver said she DIDNT want to have an abortion
just that hes trying to help her
so she might want one...im just trying to get her some onfo on the clinics near her so she can get help

and ASAP!

Why doesn't he want to stay on this thread? Nobody knows anyone in rl here, least of all the original poster. He'll get a lot more answers from a lot more people.

(not that girlfriend and princess aren't doing a great job, they are. )