IF she has a g-spot (not ALL women do!) it will be about 1-2 inches into the vagina on the side of her vagina that is closest to her stomach.

Place your fingers into her vagina and feel for a rough spot - you may or may not find it. Then, curl your fingers forward to gently stroke the vaginal wall.

A strong warning: Only about 30% of women can vaginally orgasm AT ALL, and less than 10% TOTAL can ejaculate!! So chances are, your girlfriend CANNOT ejaculate. It may still feel good to her, but don't get your hopes up. Don't blame it on her if she can't. It's not her fault.

I can feel my g-spot with my fingers, but it doesn't feel pleasureable at all when I touch it.

Same here. It makes my urethra feel like it's burning and I have to pee.

first you have to be pretty turned on to feel pleasure from it, so no imediate finger lick and stick.

Once she is arroused then the clit (which if you know the anatomy swells INSIDE her) and makes things very sensitive. Then you can insert your finger right behind the bone and yes it is the 'rough' feeling tissue. This swells as she is turned on, swells with ejaculant which she may/or may not be able to 'squirt' out.

So you rub that area you should feel it even swelling you want to do the finger like 'come here' NOT just straight in and out. She will probably feel like she is going to pee and that is ok, the g-spot is tissue that is served as a protectant to the urethra for when you are having sex. If it was not there then the penis could cause damage to the urethra.

No not all woman can ejaculate from internal stimulation alone but I think the 30% would increase if she was being played with differently....as for squirting that depends on where the urethra is more times the woman ejaculated 'internally'. (see other post on squirting)

Eiri-never heard of a woman not having a g-spot since it is moreless part of the body...where did you read that? interesting.

Um... clearly, YOU do not know anatomy. The CLITORIS is not inside the body and does NOT "swell inside of her".

The clitoris is an external pleasure organ. It is outside of the body. The clitoris may indeed swell during arousal, but since it is outside of the bdy just like the penis, clearly, it is not swelling "inside" of her. It behaves much like the penis, in fact.


That is of course if she's lucky enough to have a g-spot in the first place, and if she's then lucky enough that stimulating it gives her pleasure. That's not the case for me.



It's a well known fact actually. Many women either don't have one, or it is built in such a way that is not "rough" so the partner cannot find it AND it offers absolutely no pleasure at all. Stimulating my g-spot isn't pleasurable at all.

i wish i knew if i had one...or if i've had an orgasm from it :S

You'd KNOW if you'd orgasmed from it just like you just know if you have a clitoral orgasm. It's like you just know you've sneezed; it's obvious.

Here this might help you out.

"The clitoris is a complex structure that includes the external and internal components. Visible to the eye is the clitoral hood (prepuce), which in full or part covers the head (clitoral glans), shaft and inner lips (labia minora). Inside the body are the legs or clitoral crura, urethral sponge, clitoral bulb (previously referred to as vestibule bulb) and corpora, perineal sponge, a network of nerves and blood vessels, suspensory ligaments, muscles and pelvic diaphragm.

Masters and Johnson were the first to determine that the clitoral structures surround and extend along the vagina, determining that all orgasms are of clitoral origin. More recently, Australian urologist Dr. Helen O'Connell using MRI technology noted a direct relationship between the legs or roots of the clitoris and the erectile tissue of the clitoral bulbs and corpora, and the distal urethra and vagina. She asserts that this interconnected relationship is the physiological explanation for the G-spot and experience of vaginal orgasm taking into account the stimulation of the internal parts of the clitoris during vaginal penetration. Some individuals who experience orgasm from both direct clitoral stimulation of the glans and vaginal access to the internal bodies may distinguish between them in terms of both the physical and general sensations associated with each.






Again I would love to see those 'facts'.
"Researchers believe that all women have a G Spot but because it is not a "spot" as such, it is impossible to identify..."

Do all woman have g-spots? "Yes. It's hard to find though. Most women who have felt pleasure from it, have felt it when their partner stimulated them w/ their finger curved slightly, so they're rubbing on the wall behind the pubic bone....."
"Studies show that all women do have a G -Spot but that not all experience pleasurable feelings when it is stimulated. The G Spot is described as the female equalivant of the the male prostrate."

So apparently we do all have them but not all are being arroused correctly...maybe that is what is happening with you??

I agree you would know, personally whenI have one I feel the urge to push kinda like to relieve the tention inside of me.....

good luck!!