I think talking on some transgendered, hermaphroditic and transexual forums may help you out a lot. There are people in this world just like you; they were born with one of both, have mismatched breasts and penises and vaginas, or were raised as the "wrong" gender when their parents decided to change them as babies with surgery.
Some people choose later in life to get surgery to make their body seem more like the gender the "feel" they are. This isn't necessarily the right option for you, I'm just letting you know there are a lot of people confused about their bodies and their gender.
