Okay you all know whats been going on with stephen (my babys dad) and his stupid !**@! friend michelle. Well I told you that everything was truce, okay...And stuff.....Well yesterday more !**@! started. Stephen called so I called him back and michelle answered his phone. I asked to talk to stephen and she wouldnt let me....This is how our convo somewhat went:(on the phone)
michelle: okay more !**@! is starting up, you need to get your man in check again because he starting more !**@!
me: oh my !**@! g god what now..I want to talk to stephen
michelle: no, see your man is told people a couple of hours ago..And I found a couple minutes ago that you said that stephen stole alexander and that pat is going to beat my best friend brandons as$
me: thats not possible, he was at my !**@! g house the whole time.....
Then I started rambling about all these rumours and dadadada...
Michelle: well, all I know is pat better back the !**@! off because people are after you and him now (stephen in the background saying that he is going to beat that !**@! as$ lazy eyed !**@!) and then alexander started to cry and she goes " nikki, be a good mom and take care of that baby" I got soooooo !**@! g mad that I hung up on her ( cause shes always telling me what to do with alexander and always telling me that im not doing anything right). Well I called back and stephen answered and I told him that this is !**@! and that pat and I never said anything and he started yelling at me about everything. I told him i'm tired of all this crap and i'm going to move out of state...And he told me I cant do that.I cant move out of state and then I hear michelle in the background saying....That stupid !**@! better not, get off the phone im caling the cops..And I yelled in the phone tell that stupid !**@! ng !**@! to shut the !**@! up because im going to beat her herpie infested a$$...Stephen hung up on me. Then I called back and they didnt answer so I left a message on the answer machiene and said michelle you !**@! I ng !**@! it is on now..Y o u !**@! ing prostitute I am going to beat your !**@! ing as$ so bad because you cant mind your own g od d a m n buisness!! And I hung up....Well...Stephens mom ended up calling someone and I didnt know who ( cause I was thinking the cops)so I took alexander and fled to my grandmas house. I decided that i'm putting a restraining order on michelle so she can't be around alexander or me...Because shes changed stephen so much and because shes starting so much !**@!...I hate this.....For the past month and a half my life has been a living h e ll!!!!! As you all know. Well today michelle called pat on the phone and left a voice message....I have to wait for pat to get off of work to hear it...But I will keep you all posted....I always do.
Last edited by mommabear16 on April 19th, 2004 10:32 AM; edited 1 time in total
You are a mother now, you don't need to be dealing with immature people like that. My advice is leave him. Either find someone mature and responsible, or raise that baby alone. You can move if you damn well feel like it because you are the woman and you will almost definately get custody. But, if you are really going to do it, do not tell him until you have legal custody and are ready to leave. That way he will not have time to do anything about it and he wont get anyone "after you"
oh, I don't miss being your age.