Hi, I've been with my girlfriend for a few months over a year. She's my second really serious love and I am absolutly mad about her, she and I work together in nearly everyway, and I don't plan on being with anyone else. We have pretty good communication and she has indicated that she feels the same way towards me. Now there is a problem that lies within myself and I'm worried that I may be a hazard to our relationship and my own worst enemy. Down to the issue in short I am a pretty jealous guy, not the violent I'm going to kick some ass jealous guy, the "you really dont need me around so I'll just go" immature sort of jealous. I really hate it and absolutly wish i wasn't this way. The weird thign about it is that I'm dead sure that she will be faithfull to me, she would never lie to me, and she geniuenlly loves me (I believe anyway). The bulk of my jealousy lies within her friends. She ha much moe guy friends then girls bc she finds guys are easier to hang out with bc they casue less drama (haha perfect woman right) but at that extent I HATE seeing photos of her with these guys or when she spends time with them, or when she does anything with them really. I know its stupid and we have talked about it and we always end up in a big fight when i bring it up. When she hangs out with them without me i feel like i dont exisit and that she doesnt need me at all and that im just another person she can hang out with, i dont feel anymore special then any of them. Shes told me I'm being stupid and i guess i am but i simply cant help that my emotions get the best of me. If anyone can help me prevent such intense feelings of anger, jealousy, and sadness in this situation please do, because I dont want it to get out of hand and be the death of such a wonderful relaionship i have with this girl.