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mystery user
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Appropriate Question Or Not?
Posted: 12-18-07 23:55pm
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Just wondering that in the case that u are
about to have sex with ur partner, BUT you
know for a fact you ain't gonna last long
(under a minute, for example) is is
appropriate to ask your partner, "could we
have sex twice, cuz the second time i'm
going to last a lot longer?". Of course
maybe you would say this with a little
more finess, but you get the point.
Secondly, would this be something you
might ask before or after intercourse?
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-19-07 00:00am
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well. gee i think it depends on who the
girl is
if travis asked me that i would hafta say
yes
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mystery user
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Posted: 12-19-07 00:02am
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ha okay... well assume it is a guy you
have never had sex with before, in fact,
it would be his first time.
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-19-07 00:03am
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is it her first time too?
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mystery user
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Posted: 12-19-07 00:04am
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heh heh.... um i hope so... i really don't
like her X boyfriend, but thats besides
the point. if anything it would only be
her second time
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Posted: 12-19-07 00:10am
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I would wait 'til you build up some trust
before you say that.
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yellowfestiva
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Posted: 12-19-07 01:24am
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rather than asking to do it a second time
just stop and do the whole after sex
cuddling afterglow thing and then just try
to start heating things up again
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Aunt WeeWee
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Posted: 12-19-07 14:36pm
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I would jus come flat out and tell her ur
situation. Tell her U don't last long da
1st time, but u last longer da 2nd round.
Jus B honest bout it, & she'll have no
reason 2 have any surprises.
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thelmas4sale
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Posted: 12-28-07 18:14pm
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you know...i don't think id mind too much
if that were the case and i had sex with a
guy not knowing round two was coming...id
be very unpleasantly surprised ...id just
come out and say it if i were you
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Flurries in the air
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Posted: 12-28-07 19:00pm
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i wud lol
i dont think she will mind too much
i wouldnt
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Georgia59
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Posted: 01-01-08 21:34pm
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Why don't you have round one be all about
her- not intercourse at all but
oral/manual stimulation? Then she'd be
ready and excited for round 2, and not
disappointed if it didn't last long.
Or just have round one, get it over with
quickly, and stimulate her to orgasm once
or twice until you're ready again, and
then have round two (or three I guess)?
Then you avoid the awkward question.
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Posted: 01-01-08 23:08pm
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I have an idea too and maybe someone
mentioned it. How about a 69 for the first
round and make sure you orgasm, so for
round two of actual vaginal penetration
you'll be in control of your ejaculation?
My fiancee didn't have
premature-ejaculation issues but we used
to do something like that all the time.
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unnamedny
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Posted: 01-02-08 18:04pm
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I would get to know her better, build some
trust first. Never go straight into sex,
always have a good foreplay most girls
like it. (things like kisses, massage,
kiss her neck, nipples, ears tell her
something nice that she is beautiful)
Anyway, if you are not going to last long
tell her that you were nervous, then ask
her if she wants to go again.
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