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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Ugh I Cant Take This!!!!!!!
Posted: 04-19-04 05:41am
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Ok everyone I am getting soo annoyed and
so bothered and upset!! Ryan (the dad)
has this new g/f. .Well hes been with a
her a few months now, and that normally
would be fine. .But im getting really
nervous. . I want them to break up b4
the baby is here and I am praying that
they will (not even cuz im jealous or
anything, its not that) its just.. Ive
never met the girl, but I talked to her a
few months ago when they first starting
dating and she was threatening to kick my
as$ and I told her I was preg and she was
like 'so what I would kill u n the baby' .
.But that was like 2-3 months ago.. But
I just dont want that girl around my baby
and dont know what to do!! Im getting
freaked out, I thought they would split by
now. . . I dont want her being a
mother-figure to my son!!!!  
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gypy04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2004
Posts: 398
Location: florida
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Posted: 04-19-04 05:52am
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Sounds like a pretty tough situation....
I don't know if there is anything that you
could do about that.... Unless like get a
restraining order or something right??
But I think that might be hard to do...
Ughhh it totally sucks when your faced
with things .... I totally feel for
you... Sorry I can't be of any help....
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 04-19-04 05:56am
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Wait until ur not pregnant anymore and
then kick her ass! Lol.....In the
meantime......Tell the cops.
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 04-19-04 06:31am
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See, I would.. But they wouldnt do
anything now, I woulda had to tell them
b4. . But its been months sense shes
said this. . But shes a pothead and all
she does is get drunk all the time (and he
does too when hes with her, so their the
same prolly) . .I just dont want my baby
around her. .I hate this.. I seriously
pray they break up and if he gets another
g/f, its someone decent.
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 04-19-04 09:06am
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I wouldnt allow her to be around the baby.
If he has a problem with that get a
lawyer!
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elfin
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Mar 2004
Posts: 50
Location: Australia
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Posted: 04-19-04 09:36am
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You could get a restraining order against
her. Just say she threatened you and the
baby, and that way when the dad has the
baby she wouldnt be allowed anywhere near
the bub. And if she did, big trouble!
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 04-19-04 10:08am
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Do not let your child around her. Forget
that he is the father!!!! Tell him to
leave her or else and if that dosen't
work, get a restraining order! You gotta
look out for #1: your baby!
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 04-19-04 10:09am
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And I forgot to say f*ck that biotch up
either way in the end! After the baby of
course!
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003
Posts: 375
Location: georgia
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Posted: 04-19-04 10:52am
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You should definately not let your baby
around her especially if she does pot and
drinks all the time. We just had a
situation back home in n.C. Were an 8 yr.
Old little boy wanted to see his father
so his mom dropped him off at his house.
The father and the girlfriend were in the
house but they sold and used drugs. The
father has pitbulls and they attacked the
lil boy. The lil boy was screaming and
noone came to help him, until an neighbor
heard him screaming. The old man said
they were dragging him around like a rag
doll. He died and his sorry a$$ excuse
for a father didnt come to his sons aid.
His mother will proably find it hard to
live with herself for letting him go.
Just though I would share that story not
all parents are responsible
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 04-19-04 10:59am
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How scary!!! Ugh I just feel so weird
cuz I talked to ryan about it and hes like
"shes changed from that, grow up it was so
long ago and u two were fighting''. .
But I just hate her and dont even know
her! Maybe its just my maternity
motherly jealously who knows. . But I
need to do something. Guess I should
wait tho and see if there even still
together by time baby comes (by the way, I
think im naming him carson)
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 04-20-04 03:20am
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Just done let him see your baby and then
he has to go to court if he wants rights
to see her but then you tell the judge
that his psycho girlfriend is a bad person
and has threatened both of you so then he
might only be able to have supervised
visits and the girl will not be allowed to
go by court order, so dont worry just let
the courts handle it. Tell your guy the
next time he says stuff like that say "im
not gonna worry about this, im gonna let
the court decide this" and he cant do
much.
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 04-20-04 03:23am
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I would take it up with his parents and
yours. If he wants to see that baby he
comes to your house alone. I seen this on
a movie once. On lifetime!!
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