Hey, most guys don't last long their first time and it is a natural thing. If you are with someone who truly loves and cares about you she wont care either. With time and experience your body will adapt and you will learn how to better sustain yourself.

As for now when you do masturbate, let it get close to the orgasm then slow down/stop so the feeling gets lessened, then start again. Not only will this enhance your orgasm but it will teach you control for the future. Don't worry about putting stuff on yourself until you have been having sex for awhile and you clearly have a problem.

yes but if i cant last wiht my hand i wont last with a woman!!!!


and why u just assume ill be wiht someone who loves and cares etc., what if im just having fun wiht a easy woman?

How long are we talking? How long do you last when you are masturbating?

And how old are you?

The first time you have sex, you probably will not last long. Most men don't. You'll just have to get over it.

i last 3 strokes with lube then ive ejaculated. i am 20 years old.

Hmm... I think the PE sticky will be the best for you (I know you've been on it already), if you read through all the pages you will see what worked for other guys and what didn't.

You are still young, though, it may be due in part to age.

I have had severe PE for about 15 years now and my marriage suffered tremendously. Tried Clomipramine and saw maybe 1-3 minutes increase of time (better then 2 seconds!), but had insomnia and difficulty urinating first thing in the morning, and had headaches and nausea. Tried Zoloft and saw absolutely no increase in time of Ejac. Finally tried Paxil (Paroxetine) and within the first week saw a dramatic increase in time of Ejac with minimal side effects. Now 4 weeks of use I can last 30 minutes plus, no side effects, and feel I have my wife back and have a whole new sex life now!!!!! We're trying all kinds of new positions.

Hey guys I can totally empathise with you chaps, the whole PE thing is driving me insane too. Check out my blog prematureejaculation.blog.co.uk it's a lighthearted look at the problem and solutions. Please feel free to add your comments and words of wisdom - Craig