I am a gay bloke who hasn't had a shag for hundreds of years (out of choice), but I am so desperate that some women I love turn me on when I am affectionate with them. This is really annoying and I was wondering if there is some way to reduce my desperation.
I don't think I'm bi, coz came out a long time ago and women haven't turned me on since recently. I had a boyfriend for 8 years and have been single for about 3 years, coz I am a bit too independent for that. I'm also not into shagging around, hence my problem. I do wank loads, but it doesn't make a difference.