Ok, me and my girlfriend was messing around a couple weeks ago and we had anal sex. The thing is I used a condom to be perfectly sure and i got off inside her (but it was anal). That was maybe 3 or 4 weeks ago. maybe 1 or 2 weeks ago we did that same thing again and i didnt use a condom but i didnt get off inside of her. but there were times when i first started i slipped down and rubbed her genitalia maybe two or three times but i didnt get off at that time nor had i got off before slipping. but there was NOT any vaginal intercourse. but the other day we were yet messing around again and i was fingering her and afterwards she was complaining her stomach was hurting and then today she was complaining that her stomach had been hurting and her back. but she also had high heeled shoes on for a concer.....i dont know why i am so paranoid im just not ready for a kid yet just please help out with any advise PLEASE!!!