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Q: Disturbing Sexual Thoughts

asked by: Haunted on December 17th, 2007

New User

I've always been quite comfortable with my sexuality, and with masturbating and all. However, as I mentioned in another thread, a while ago my libido completely died. I'm starting to get worried as it hasn't returned, and what used to sexually arouse me doesn't sexually arouse me as much anymore, and now I'm having these disturbing sexual thoughts that are scaring me and making me not want to masturbate at all.

So...is it normal to have sexual thoughts about things one might regard as disturbing? I think I've thought of having sex with just about everyone, but there are certain thoughts that get to me and make me feel extremely uneasy. Maybe it is normal considering I'm a teenager and all, but because society still regards a lot of this stuff as taboo and seems to believe it shouldn't be talked about I really don't know if what I'm going through is normal or not.

Can anyone offer me their opinions?

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Replies(8)

JacobRyan

replied on December 17th, 2007

Experienced User

What thoughts, specifically? Just having sex with everyone or are there others?

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Haunted

replied on December 17th, 2007

New User

I'd rather not say specifically. It's just certain thoughts about with certain people/types of people that bother me. They're causing me to become unsure of myself and my sexuality.

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marvel

replied on December 17th, 2007

Supporter

As long as these sexual thoughts do not involve inflicting pain on unwilling recipients/recipients that cannot object to it (like children and animals), you're ok.

When you said 'disturbing', I thought you were going to say you were a necrophiliac or something (liked having sex with dead people).

If you ever want to chat VIA Private Message, go for it!

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JacobRyan

replied on December 17th, 2007

Experienced User

You can think about anything you want. Have the sense not to act on any thoughts you know are harmful, and if that becomes a difficult thing to do talk to some professional that can help you.

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ombre_engano

replied on December 17th, 2007

New User

JacobRyan wrote:

You can think about anything you want. Have the sense not to act on any thoughts you know are harmful, and if that becomes a difficult thing to do talk to some professional that can help you.

I completely agree with you on that one.

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Haunted

replied on December 18th, 2007

New User

marvel wrote:

As long as these sexual thoughts do not involve inflicting pain on unwilling recipients/recipients that cannot object to it (like children and animals), you're ok.

When you said 'disturbing', I thought you were going to say you were a necrophiliac or something (liked having sex with dead people).

If you ever want to chat VIA Private Message, go for it!

I'm not inflicting pain on anyone in these thoughts (they're the ones who are performing sexual acts on me) but I'm still a little distrubed by them.

JacobRyan wrote:

You can think about anything you want. Have the sense not to act on any thoughts you know are harmful, and if that becomes a difficult thing to do talk to some professional that can help you.

Thanks. I don't think I'd ever act on them, but so much as thinking them makes me feel weird.

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catonia

replied on January 5th, 2008

Experienced User

I have sick thoughts everyday,not necrophilia,but suspected teratophilia! but i enjoy them,even though they're quite weird(i'm sick i know) and i've thought loads worse.

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lonestarguy

replied on January 6th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

catonia wrote:

I have sick thoughts everyday,not necrophilia,but suspected teratophilia! but i enjoy them,even though they're quite weird(i'm sick i know) and i've thought loads worse.

I saw your post on another thread about your thoughts, but I don't think you are sick for thinking of teratophilia. Almost everyone has some sort of fetish and some are extreme like yours. But, that doesn't mean you are sick.

If you haven't acted on your fetish, then you still have a chance as you mature, that those thoughts might not stay with you. If they do and are causing you pain or hurting your relationships, then consult a psychiatrist.

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