Unable to Orgasm During Sex Posted: 12-17-07 01:39am
So i think there might be something wrong
with me... I've slept and yes i know this
is horrible but 3 different guys and sex
has not been enjoyable for me... i mean i
get turned on but after hes in me all i
can think about is when is this gonna be
over. Its crazy i've done it with one a
couple of times we tried different things,
but honestly i haven't had an organism yet
what the hell am i doing wrong.....??????
SOME ONE PLEASE TELL ME SOMETHING THAT I
CAN TRY TO HELP ME>...
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dannyboygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 192 Location: ,
Posted: 01-12-08 21:36pm
Some people need to be in love to have an
orgasm its more an emotional connection
and maybe you don't like it..ask a
doctor...good luck
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Strumphette
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2007 Posts: 88
Posted: 01-12-08 22:29pm
I've only been with one guy...my husband,
and I've never had an orgasm either. But
like dannyboygirl said, I think it has a
lot to do with emotions and being
connected. I feel like I'm getting close
to one when I'm feeling especially close
to my husband.
Good luck to both of us!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-13-08 00:12am
I would suggest masturbating by yourself.
How on earth can you expect to have
pleasure during sex when you can't cause
yourself pleasure?
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franchize
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2008 Posts: 1
Posted: 01-13-08 01:38am
i had the same problem for years untill i
learned to rub my clit while having sex
now i orgasm every time
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lele25
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Posted: 01-13-08 02:02am
Is there any clitoral stimulation? I know
that many women can't have an orgasm with
just vaginal sex, they require clitoral
stimulation to bring on an orgasm. Eiri is
totally right about the masturbation
suggestion. If you can make your self
climax, you'll know what direction to
steer him in! Good luck!
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EmilyS
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2008 Posts: 10 Location: ,
Posted: 01-13-08 06:12am
Can you have an orgasm when you plwy with
yourself?
If so, maybe you're really not feeling
comfortable enough with the guys you have
been with. This can take time for some
people. It can also be that you're really
just trying to hard, so while having sex,
don't concentrate too hard on it itself.
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Accolade
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jan 2008 Posts: 11 Location: ,
Posted: 01-15-08 13:59pm
Definitely agree with Eiri. I have had a
few girlfriends out of many who have not
been able to get off through intercourse
alone, however, ALL of them had never
masturbated before. Trust me, once you
learn to pleasure yourself alone, you'll
be able to get off through intercourse.
Some guys believe it or not are the same.
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gingerelizabeth
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2008 Posts: 79
Posted: 01-15-08 18:05pm
hey!
i had that problem for a long time
many girls cant orgasm through vaginal sex
alone.
the guys gotta use the clit!
just tell em thats what you like.
