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Q: Unable to Orgasm During Sex

asked by: utchic2 on December 17th, 2007

New User

So i think there might be something wrong with me... I've slept and yes i know this is horrible but 3 different guys and sex has not been enjoyable for me... i mean i get turned on but after hes in me all i can think about is when is this gonna be over. Its crazy i've done it with one a couple of times we tried different things, but honestly i haven't had an organism yet what the hell am i doing wrong.....?????? SOME ONE PLEASE TELL ME SOMETHING THAT I CAN TRY TO HELP ME>... Embarassed

Replies(9)

dannyboygirl

replied on January 12th, 2008

Experienced User

Some people need to be in love to have an orgasm its more an emotional connection and maybe you don't like it..ask a doctor...good luck

Strumphette

replied on January 12th, 2008

Experienced User

I've only been with one guy...my husband, and I've never had an orgasm either. But like dannyboygirl said, I think it has a lot to do with emotions and being connected. I feel like I'm getting close to one when I'm feeling especially close to my husband.
Good luck to both of us!

Tylanas

replied on January 13th, 2008

Especially eHealthy

I would suggest masturbating by yourself. How on earth can you expect to have pleasure during sex when you can't cause yourself pleasure?

franchize

replied on January 13th, 2008

New User

i had the same problem for years untill i learned to rub my clit while having sex now i orgasm every time

lele25

replied on January 13th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

Is there any clitoral stimulation? I know that many women can't have an orgasm with just vaginal sex, they require clitoral stimulation to bring on an orgasm. Eiri is totally right about the masturbation suggestion. If you can make your self climax, you'll know what direction to steer him in! Good luck!

EmilyS

replied on January 13th, 2008

New User

Can you have an orgasm when you plwy with yourself?
If so, maybe you're really not feeling comfortable enough with the guys you have been with. This can take time for some people. It can also be that you're really just trying to hard, so while having sex, don't concentrate too hard on it itself.

Accolade

replied on January 15th, 2008

New User

Definitely agree with Eiri. I have had a few girlfriends out of many who have not been able to get off through intercourse alone, however, ALL of them had never masturbated before. Trust me, once you learn to pleasure yourself alone, you'll be able to get off through intercourse. Some guys believe it or not are the same.

gingerelizabeth

replied on January 15th, 2008

Experienced User

hey!
i had that problem for a long time
many girls cant orgasm through vaginal sex alone.
the guys gotta use the clit!
just tell em thats what you like.

meukim08

replied on June 11th, 2009

New User

i have only had sex with one guy..and i am 19, i had never had a oragasm with him, we have tried several times, in everyway..but still nothing. i started playing with myself and thats the only way i get off, but i still cant seem to come with my guy..i wonder whats wrong...what can i do ..

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