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Q: Unable to Orgasm During Sex
asked by: utchic2 on December 17th, 2007
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So i think there might be something wrong with me... I've slept and yes i know this is horrible but 3 different guys and sex has not been enjoyable for me... i mean i get turned on but after hes in me all i can think about is when is this gonna be over. Its crazy i've done it with one a couple of times we tried different things, but honestly i haven't had an organism yet what the hell am i doing wrong.....?????? SOME ONE PLEASE TELL ME SOMETHING THAT I CAN TRY TO HELP ME>... Embarassed
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dannyboygirl
replied on January 12th, 2008
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Some people need to be in love to have an orgasm its more an emotional connection and maybe you don't like it..ask a doctor...good luck
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Strumphette
replied on January 12th, 2008
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I've only been with one guy...my husband, and I've never had an orgasm either. But like dannyboygirl said, I think it has a lot to do with emotions and being connected. I feel like I'm getting close to one when I'm feeling especially close to my husband.
Good luck to both of us!
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Tylanas
replied on January 13th, 2008
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I would suggest masturbating by yourself. How on earth can you expect to have pleasure during sex when you can't cause yourself pleasure?
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franchize
replied on January 13th, 2008
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i had the same problem for years untill i learned to rub my clit while having sex now i orgasm every time
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lele25
replied on January 13th, 2008
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Is there any clitoral stimulation? I know that many women can't have an orgasm with just vaginal sex, they require clitoral stimulation to bring on an orgasm. Eiri is totally right about the masturbation suggestion. If you can make your self climax, you'll know what direction to steer him in! Good luck!
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EmilyS
replied on January 13th, 2008
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Can you have an orgasm when you plwy with yourself?
If so, maybe you're really not feeling comfortable enough with the guys you have been with. This can take time for some people. It can also be that you're really just trying to hard, so while having sex, don't concentrate too hard on it itself.
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Accolade
replied on January 15th, 2008
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Definitely agree with Eiri. I have had a few girlfriends out of many who have not been able to get off through intercourse alone, however, ALL of them had never masturbated before. Trust me, once you learn to pleasure yourself alone, you'll be able to get off through intercourse. Some guys believe it or not are the same.
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gingerelizabeth
replied on January 15th, 2008
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hey!
i had that problem for a long time
many girls cant orgasm through vaginal sex alone.
the guys gotta use the clit!
just tell em thats what you like.
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meukim08
replied on June 11th, 2009
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i have only had sex with one guy..and i am 19, i had never had a oragasm with him, we have tried several times, in everyway..but still nothing. i started playing with myself and thats the only way i get off, but i still cant seem to come with my guy..i wonder whats wrong...what can i do ..
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