Okay, I have a slight dilemma. I have very high allergies and asthma. One thing that does effect me is cigarette smoke. My mom smoked when I was younger, then quit, which is awesome! I have NEVER smoked ANYTHING in my life and never plan on it, however...my husband's mother and sisters are smokaholics. I does bother me going to any of their houses. My chest gets tight and I sneeze and then am stuffed up the rest of the day. Soon, Illinois is passing the no smoking in public buildings law and my mother-in-law says she is quitting. I am not sure I have that much faith in her though. So, my actual question....when I finally do get pregnant, how can that effect my baby? Also, we only live about 5 minutes from my in-laws and my husband likes to go over there a substantial amount, so when we do have a newborn, I do NOT want our baby to be exposed to such yucky, smelly, and most of all harmful smoke!!!! I just don't know how to relay this to my husband, since he will most likely get irritated and be defensive, saying there aren't issues with it, since he grew up with it and his nieces and nephews are around it. Please, please help me with my argument-preparation!!!
Sorry, I know this is loooong...but it is so important to me and really would like your guys' help!! Thanks a ton!!
-Amy