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Q: If Any Body Can Help?
asked by: crissy on September 10th, 2003
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My best friend's girlfriend is lieing to him telling him she is pregnant. How can I make him see the truth. She is only saying that to keep him. Is there anything I could do so he can see she is lying? I told him to make her take a pregnancy test. She refused when he ask her. She said she went to the clinic. She is only seventeen years old. If she is pregnant, don't you think the doctor would have got in touch with her parents? Help me anybody. I don't want my friend life to be messed up by some girl who don't want anything good in life.
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nikki_caro
replied on September 10th, 2003
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No, doctors dont usually contact the parent, its up to the girl. Why dont you tell your friend striaght up that shes lying to him? Tell him that she is not worth all the trouble especially if shes lying to keep him. Are you positive shes lying? Get a test for him and make him make her take it. If its not going to help then step back and let him find out for himself, but enforce that he do not come in her and to wear a condom. Because he might figure well shes already preg, might as well come in her. Then she will get pregnant. And as soon as he finds out shes not, then you can say I told you so!, and he'll dump her on his own. Or talk to the girl yourself. Good luck!
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crissy
replied on September 11th, 2003
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Its not that simple. I don't want people looking at me saying oh she just trying to break them up. You feel me. That boy is my best friend since we were young. We went to prom together, homecoming, go out almost every weekend to the movies. She got jealous of this and made him stop. Now we don't even hardly talk. Actually we can't cause of her. I really wish this hadn't of happen. He say he do not like her and the only reason he is with her cause she is pregnant and I know she is lieing. I guess I don't have the guts to step up to her. You know, what if she is really pregnant now cause he say they still sleep together with no protection? I think i'm just going to cut him off as a friend. What do you think I should do?
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nikki_caro
replied on September 11th, 2003
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Dont give up that easy because some girl is involved! I never ever let a girl come between me and a guy friend unless he cut me off on his own. I did the same thing, go to movies, and dinner, and fairs, and go to watch movie. I was his real girlfriend without the sex and kissing! (which he got from her) she got jealous but he told her straight up "she's a friend, and shes going to be a friend and if you dont like it, then theres the door." you need to tell him "so your just going to drop me like that over some leslie?" (leslie is my nice word for girls aka hoodrats I dont like) and what do you mean you dont have the guts to step up to her? Girl you need to grow some balls! Haha j/k! But really I mean, back then, when I was a mean girl, I would go up to her and be like "so, do you even know who the babies dad is?" I was mean. You dont have to be that mean but go up to her and say "i know your not pregnant, but me and **** are friends, and if you dont like it, then you can go chill on the curb cuz if you think you can come between our friendship, you have another thing coming." and who cares if other people say your trying to break them up? So what! Thats no big deal. Let them talk. Then you tell thos same people, well I heard she pregnant but she lying to keep him. Let the rumors break them and you sit back and watch. If you think hes worth the friendship then you do what you have to do. But dont let no leslie stop you.
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krissy_thug missy
replied on September 11th, 2003
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Hello crissy seems some chick is sprung with your best friend well just talk to yo friend by his self and tell him to chill when he start tosay stuff like I no she not lying she will not do that if he say stuff like that it means he already new she was lying and dont want to believe it that was another great lesson from crissy historycrissy your my role model
cuz u helped me and now I can give advise to people who kneed it like dynsty now that girl need it all!
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krissy_thug missy
replied on September 11th, 2003
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Hello crissy seems some chick is sprung with your best friend well just talk to yo friend by his self and tell him to chill when he start tosay stuff like I no she not lying she will not do that if he say stuff like that it means he already new she was lying and dont want to believe it that was another great lesson from crissy historycrissy your my role model
cuz u helped me and now I can give advise to people who kneed it like dynsty now that girl need it all!
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youngmama
replied on September 12th, 2003
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Crissy, don't give up hun!! You need to let your friend know that this is serious stuff! If she is pregnant, she is lucky to have a guy like him around not everyone is that lucky! But if not, man oh man you need to tell him again not to have unprotected sex with her! While it is a possiblity that she got pregnant that one time, its unlikely! Just calmly explain to him that if she was really pregnant and excited then the first thing she would have done would have flashed the results of that test! You have my 100% support! If you need help feel free to pm or email me!

Aim- mommy2cheynaomi
yahoo- mommytocheynaomi

good luck and best wishes
-jessika-
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LiLmISsNc
replied on September 14th, 2003
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^ thats a good point about flashing the results of a pregnancy test if she really is pregnant. I look at it like this... If the girl was really pregnant and went to the clinic like she said she did. Why didnt she take the boy .. I think you should tell him 1 time how much she lies and if he doesnt believe you then you should let him find out the hard way. You shouldnt have to force no "friend" to believe you because if he was as good a friend to you as you are to him he would believe you the first time and would never have stop talkin to you over his "girlfriend". But you should make sure that she is not pregnant before you go tellin him because if she turns out to be then your friend has all the right to never be able to trust you again. So just think hard about your decision cause in the end it could help things or it could make things worse than they already are.
Another thing, I dont understand y girls fake pregnancy especially teens. Its not exactly easy as pie having babies especially in your teens my friend has a 14 month old baby and its not real hard for her but its not real easy either. Some girls just make all of us look bad.
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