24 Year Old Virgin Needs Help! Posted: 12-15-07 03:55am
I'm a 24 year old virgin and i am a guy.
why aren't i posting this on the guys
site, while you my understand as well. i
like my films, music, pubs (when i can). i
don't condiser myself ugly, a little
overweight. i was 21 stone, now im 18
stone. Back when i was at school i had a
few girls who i knew but they wanted to
stay as 'friends', that pissed me off.
maybe it was me and i didn't push enough
but i think they latched onto me to get to
my friends. But my problem is i feel like
going mad, everywhere i go i seem to see
porn or sex. i masturbate everyday, it
does my nut. Its on my brain all the time.
I just wanna do it and get it off my
brain, i know i should wait for that
someone but i dont care. Although I think
i could do quite well at it, from what
i've read and seen. I just want some one
who understands, whos in my shoes from the
oppsite sex. If someone wants to chat via
facebook or msn, just reply below.
PS. I know this isn't a chat forum but
people on this forum seem to take issues
seriously. thanks for reading.
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FlorisV
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2008 Posts: 6
Posted: 01-30-08 12:49pm
Slyar,
Please read my long post on the
Dull "Nice Guy" image killing me??
topic. Seems you have sort of the same
problem. You have the confidence to talk
to girls but did perhaps not build enough
attraction and probably did not "kino
escalate" (that means slowly starting to
touch her more, read my other post).
Building attraction well that is showing
that you have humour, an active life, are
well liked by girls (go out with them if
your have female friends), can make
interesting conversation, are a loving,
caring person, generally show your value
in an indirect way (show, don't tell),
without trying to sell yourself like an
ad.
Masturbation is a normal thing, just not a
substitute and we know it. Let's get out
there and meet some women, I need it as
bad as you do. Am a 30-year old virgin,
just a late bloomer I know I can change.
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slyar
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2007 Posts: 6
Posted: 02-23-08 11:37am
thanks for your support.
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YettieGal
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Feb 2008 Posts: 48 Location: Hell, MI
Posted: 02-25-08 10:24am
Don't feel bad guys- there are late
bloomers out there too that are woman as
well!
Just try to take your mind off of it- or
if it's really that bad, go to a club/bar.
Most people end up going there for that
kind of thing, and there's nothing wrong
with it.. as long as both parties knows
what the other wants. I personally
wouldn't do that, because I wouldn't want
to bring that type of attention to myself
or run into that person down the road. I
guess it's slightly different for women
too- not safe as well.
I guess if it was me- I'd occupy myself
with something else for the time being.
Sex is great- but it's not the most
important thing- trust me.
