I know personally that my boyfriend enjoys it a lot when I get really dominant and talk to him in a sexy voice using dominating words. Other than that, just do whatever you want that you think might turn him on.

you say give him a b/j obviously...that is not going to be as exciting if he knows that too. You want him to not know what is coming next. Tease hima litttle or make him beg you/tell you what he wants.
I agree with what aryeani said as well about dominating.

if he is blind folded play with your self and let him taste your finger or make him touch you when you are wet, rub your boobs against him or something.

Good luck!

Im a Mistress and love domination. If you cuff and blindfold him he will find his senses highten as will you in that position. U can touch him in one place then another, use dif objects like a feather, leather whip, ice cube etc etc. Yes a blow job is good. But another thing u can do is use ur hand to extend a blow job so it feels like ur vagina. Hell find this a odd sensation. Also try many dif positions as when hes blindfolded he wont see u if u feel silly at such a odd angle etc. Maybe use food in the bedroom. Light spanking etc. theres many books etc out there with great ideas. Role plays always fun. U can even tie him up leave him for a bit, dress up, put a totally dif purfume on and come in a have sex. it will almost be like a stranger to him! As long as you have trust you can have lots of fun!!
good luck and enjoy

Thanks for the tips, I'll give them a shot!

i have a couple of suggestions for you.

1st. agree on a "safe word". maybe "gasoline" or something completely unrelated to sex. maybe "library" is a good word.

2nd. use this safeword to stop whatever is going on that you may begin to feel uncomfortable with. this way you KNOW that you are safe and you can trust that no matter what happens, when the safe word is mentioned, everything stops until you are cleared to move forward (if you are).

3rd. try things that he will like. take a feather and run it all over his body (or a feather facsimile). give him a massage while he is tied up...just to build up the energy between you two.

4th. maybe even do something that would make him "slightly uncomfortable" to get him "out of his element" a bit. don't hurt him in any way, but maybe intimate that you might consider it...by running your fingernails across his chest or tummy...if he b@tches about it, then spank him... or put one hand in warm water and touch him with it, and then take the other hand dipped in ice water and touch him with that.

there are all kinds of things you can do to make it "interesting". i love doing new stuff to my b/f. we have a blast in bed!

oh here's another idea for you. put some plastic sheeting (available from lowes or home depot) down on the floor in your living room. blind fold him when he comes in the door to your apartment (or house). take off all his clothes and tie his hands and feet however you want to. lay him down on the plastic sheeting and take a bottle fo warm mineral oil and pour it all over him...slowlyyyyyyyyy...
then rub on him, lay on him, slip and slide on him etc...my b/f freaked the heck out when i did this! it was awesome. keep some towels handy so you can wipe down without creating a mess in your house on your way to the showers (fun too).

jasmine

that sounds like a lot a fun jazzy! I will have to try that on day with my hubby to be.

hey jazzy just purchase mineral oil from a drug store? I seen some at walgreens and it was for consipation. Is that what it is and is that the kind I get?

hahahaha...yes sweetie. it's the same stuff.

it's just the same as baby oil without the scent (which makes me want to puke). google johnson&johnson baby oil contents and you'll see that baby oil is mineral oil with scent. hahaha. technically, you could use any kind of oil, but mineral oil is cheap and i've seen several of my girlfriends use it to bake themselves in the sun with (don't tell anyone i said that).

just so long as it's an oil substance, pretty much anything would work. it's stuff that is healthy for your skin so it serves kind of a dual purpose! ha! you could probably use extra virgin olive oil if you wanted (i'm italian...what can i say! ha!).

so, use the oil, have fun, take a shower, wash it all off, and have MORE fun!
your skin will feel awesome afterward, and you'll have a great experience to remember.

jasmine

With him being tied up you are in full control. Use this opportunity to tease him. Handcuff him and then touch him around his thighs, and stroke gently upwards, but don't actually touch his penis, just make him think you're going to. Get closer and closer and give him a bit more each time but keep him frustrated. Use your tongue all over his body but still avoiding his sensitive areas. Talk dirty to him, and ask him how badly he wants you. Ask if he wants to touch you, then tell him he can't. Tease him by sitting on his penis and simulating sex, or allow him to enter you just a tiny bit.
I do this to my boyfriend and he goes wild. The last time we did it he broke the handcuffs lol.

thanks jazzy! i went out and bought those items today! so sometime this week or weekend i'm gonna try it. I know he'll love it!! Thanks again girl!

you're welcome sweetie! glad to be of assistance. let us know how it works out for you. i bet you two will have a blast!

be careful!

jasmine