Joined: 08 Dec 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Grand Ledge, MI U.S.A
How to Have Orgasms... Posted: 12-12-07 20:27pm
this is my 1st post and i had a
question... how can i make myself
orgasm??? Ever since i was raped and had
my son i have been able to orgasm, I want
to be able to do it myself because i dont
want anything to do with men but i seem to
be having a bit of trouble... if anyone
has any advice on things i could do that
would help i would appreciate it alot!!!
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Hell Fire
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Joined: 15 May 2007 Posts: 74 Location: Plymouth UK, UK
Posted: 12-13-07 12:38pm
Hi, Im very sorry to hear u was raped. i
had a close call but managed to fight him
off luckily! For a long while after this i
couldnt orgasm and still find it hard to
trust men. it will take time. Best way is
to be alone and try to relax. maybe watch
something a bit kinky or romantic? use
plenty of KY and start to rub ur clit is
always a sure fire way of getting turned
on. this alone may give a orgasm but some
women find it easier to alos have a vib
etc also inserted. press it upwards to the
roof of ur vagina on ur G spot and just
find what feels best for you, hopefully
after a little while of playing about ull
have a explosive one. but u need to relax
and think only sexual nice things about
what u like. Maybe a fantasy u have?
good luck!!
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Lisagirl1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Grand Ledge, MI U.S.A
Posted: 12-14-07 20:34pm
thanks so much! i will try it and
hopefully that will work...
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-14-07 20:36pm
porn?
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Hell Fire
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 May 2007 Posts: 74 Location: Plymouth UK, UK
Posted: 12-16-07 12:36pm
Well i hope it does. Ull have to let us
all know lol. Yeah porns always good in
some ways.
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Rosie H
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Posted: 12-16-07 19:24pm
Maybe you could also try lesbian pron.,
epecially since there are issues with
trustine men. I couldnt watch porn before
because of the men I saw. But if you
start with lesbian porn you could feel
more at ease and its really hot too.
JUst take your time and do what feels the
best over and over again until you come
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-16-07 19:29pm
Rosie H
wrote:
Maybe you could also try
lesbian pron., epecially since there are
issues with trustine men. I couldnt watch
porn before because of the men I saw. But
if you start with lesbian porn you could
feel more at ease and its really hot too.
JUst take your time and do what feels the
best over and over again until you
come
YES
lesbian porn is the best
thats all i watch
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Lisagirl1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Grand Ledge, MI U.S.A
Posted: 12-17-07 07:38am
okay thanks you guys... i will deffinitely
have to try it!!!