Risks of Oral Sex or Anal sex with wife? Posted: 12-12-07 15:19pm
My wife and I have been married for 2
years and want to have oral sex. We both
have only had each other, never been with
anyone else. Is there any risks involved
for us by having oral or anal sex?
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The Mrs
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Posted: 12-12-07 16:08pm
I posted on your other thread more about
the std risk in this situation, but there
is a couple of other small "risks" of oral
sex. Sometimes during oral sex, bacteria
from a womans vagina get pushed into her
urethra, making her risk of getting a
urinary tract infection high. If she's
ever had one of those (they are pretty
common for women) she knows how painful
and uncomfortable they can be. Having her
urinate afterwards will prevent this from
happening. Other than that, oral sex is
pretty much all good
As for anal, using a condom is
recommended. Bacteria in the area really
isn't something you'd want to have on your
body, especially if you plan on vaginal
penetration afterwards. Make sure you
take the condom off (and put on a new one
if that is your preferred for of birth
control) before entering the vagina. If
the bacteria gets into the vagina or the
urethra it could cause a yeast infection
or a UTI. Neither sound very comfortable
for a woman. Also, anal is very painful
at first if not performed right.
Personally, I just can't do it. However,
many women can and enjoy doing it. Using
loooots of lube, making sure your wife is
willing and relaxed, and going slow will
help. There are also sex toys that aide
in the process of "stretching" the anal
walls, making penetration easier.
Supposedly, thats the only part that
should feel uncomfortable at first when
performed right, but for me it never has
become smooth sailing
