I am faced with a couple of problems, let me know what you think...

I was told i had smegma on my penis when i was 17 or 18 years old by my childhood physician. Since then i have done the reccomended cleaning with irish spring soap as reccomended, but the smegma remains. I dont really see the white flakey bits on my penis and i havent in years. However, there are bumps that have formed...can this still be smegma? perhaps a fungus?

My Dr. reccomended a circumcision, but i had a knee surgery this summer so i figured one surgery at a time is enough! I am considering it because i dont feel like i can have a normal relaitonship with a girl. Having these bumps on my penis is extremely embarassing...and i cant imagine bringing myself to tell the girl i have feelings for. Infact it has made me immaturely ruin potentially great relationships. I feel kinda trapped at this point.

I'm 20 years old and in college...i feel like i should be gettin out there at this point. My dad asks me why i dont have a girlfriend and what do i say..."Nah man i got this junk on my dick", chicks don't dig it....