Hello, I am 18 years old and I am a virgin. I have never had a girlfriend and I have never kissed a girl, and I have always viewed this as a problem. I am beggining to feel very depressed about my situation, and I am often harassed by classmates because it is very obvious that I am a virgin. I don't find myself entirely unattractive, slightly overweight and not entirely handsome, I look normal at least, but I am very unsocial. I go days without speaking to people my age and my best friends are my teachers. I am afraid to speak to females I feel attraction to because they would probably see me as a pathetic person just trying to hit on them.

I believe strongly in love, but there seems to be no one else who does. I am not the type of person who patronizes other people for their sexual conquests: a prostitute is a prostitute, male or female. However,by this time in my life I was hoping to reach a strong enough connection with another person that I could at least hold them. Sometimes it seems unfair to me that other people take this sort of thing for granted.

I'm sorry I'm whining, but I kindbof want to just let out how I feel.

But I also have other concerns. If I ever became close enogh with a person to have sexual contact with them, what would they expect? Would they care if I was a virgin at 18, 21, 25, 30? I also have...something else. I have a very small penis. It measures somewhere between 2.5 and 3.5 inches. I have never taken a ruler to measure because I am afraid to confirm what I already know is true. Will my potential partner refuse to have sex with me because I will not be able to pleasure her? I know this may sound like just some male pride issue, but I am honestly quite concerned.

Sorry to bother, and thanks.