So my bf and I have been dating for 10 months, and he seems to of lost the want to have a sexual relationship with me. It seems we only have sex like once a month lately. Im getting really down from this. I like him so much, i really thought he would be the guy i end up marring. I even pictuared what our wedding would be like. And besides him have a few flows he is the best guy i have ever dated, and ive dated alot of guys. (dont want that to sound wrong, ive dated alot of guys, not had sex with alot of guys lol) Ive tryed everything i could think of, I usualy dress in a black shirt and jenes. im kinda punk lookin most of the time. So one night, when he decided to take me out on a date, i was really excited because he haddnt taken me out on a date since we first met, i got all dolled up, i looked sooo nice and hot, but not over board, he said he would be at my house at 2 so i was ready by 130.. and i sat waiting... by 4 i was woundering why he hadnt called or anythign so i started texting him and even called a few times. He never answered or wrote back. He finaly called at 7 saying he was on his way over, i asked why he haddnt aswered his phone or anything he said because he was asleep (my bf has a sleeping problem, he says he cant force himself to get up, i think ive posted about it before but im not sure) So i was really pissed when he got there, and he didnt understand why so i explained to him that i had been waiting for him since 130. He didnt comment on how nice i looked or anything.
We went back to his house and layed on his couch and i waited for him to start showing that he was in the mood but i heard him start snoring ( he went to bed at 4 am slept till 7pm, it was 10 pm How could he still be tired) so i started trying to get him in the mood and he fell asleep while we were making out, it was devistating. that was in oct, weve had sex once since than. and it didnt even feel like he was into it at all, im pretty sure he just gave up and stoped trying. Every time ive tryed to get him in the mood he turns me down. I talked to him about it and he said that it was because we dont get much alone time, so i made it so we had alone time, yet agian i was turned down. he wouldnt even let me get close to him to try. I dont try to force him to do it or anything, ill usualy just wait to see if he wants to. so i talked to him again last night and he said it was because he just isnt usualy in the mood,and he doesnt want that to be the only thing that holds our relationship togeither. i asked stuff like if i just dont make him happy that way and he said i do. I want him to be open with me and tell me everything. I tould him i was sorry but i just cant stop worrying about this, he says he loves alot, and i can see that really does like me. Idk what to do. Im really devistated the guy im in head over hills for is acting so strange!