I have been with my partner for more than 10 years. We used to have a very active sexual relationship, especially at the begining like many couples.
Nowadays, we tend to have sex once a month or once every 5/6 weeks. I wonder if it's normal.
We sort of joke about it, saying 'yeah, we will have sex next year!'' and laughed about it.
We don't have any health problems. We still love and fancy each other.
I'm not frustrated. He doesn't seem to be either.
So what could be the cause(s)?
I sometimes wonder if it's possible that he desires someone else or is having an affair? Tell me what you think plz?