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Q: Help Me Re-vamp My Sex Life!
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Becky
Especially eHealthy
With my ex-husband we had a great sex life and did it 5 times a day before kids and at least 2-3 times a day even 6 years and 3 pregnancies later.
Well with my partner it's a different story. Things were good in the beginning and we would do it everyday (but I guess tha's the same at the beginning of any relationship) he IS good in bed and ctan hit all the spots etc but it's just not the same
He is circumsised and it feels different to my ex. I prefer uncut. Also he is older and 'larger' than my ex and does not have the stamina to last and last. He can only go for 20 mins and he is exhausted. And he can't go for a 2nd round after.
I'm not used to that. One sex session with my ex would last a few hours! It's got to the point now where i avoid sex. We haven't done it for 3 weeks now cause I keep making excuses (I have been on a period for a week though and he won't go near me while i'm on- my ex did)
I don't miss sex with him at all but i DO miss sex. I think about it and want it- just not with him
Please help me out and tell me what I need to do to revamp our sex life. We have toys and stuff but that's boring to me...
Help?
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musikmaker
Extremely eHealthy
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Emma2
Extremely eHealthy
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Becky
Especially eHealthy
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musikmaker
Extremely eHealthy
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Becky
Especially eHealthy
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Emma2
Extremely eHealthy
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Becky
Especially eHealthy
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Emma2
Extremely eHealthy
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Mabel
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i just think i don't fancy robbie so the lust isn't there (man that sucks) |
I was going to suggest that this was the problem. Usually, when we aren't too keen on someone, we aren't too 'excited' to have them touch us - and, it seems to me (please don't be angry because I'm terribly stupid and blunt sometimes! You can kick me for it if you wish!) that you are finding little things to keep your distance from Robbie. Very recently it was his things in your extra room that made you angry at him and, I've noticed for me, when I don't really like-like someone, I pick and needle at every little minor thing there could be until I make it into a giant gaping wound.
For instance, I dated a man once and was so annoyed at the bike shorts he wore. They embarrassed me to no end. I never wanted anyone to see that he wore them around the house. Ever. Then it was the way that he acted around my friends. And the way that he breathed! He just annoyed me. Of course, I didn't really fancy him either. I found other reasons to break up with him though and I was terribly cruel about it.
I wish I wouldn't have been so mean. He didn't deserve it. He was a nice enough guy - just NOT the guy for me.
I think, for you, the sex issue is a deeper part of your relationship with Robbie. But you already know that
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ServiceU
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