i have been reading on this website for
the last few days and i must say that it
is almost become addicting. hearing all of
your opinions has really changed my views
on diffrent things.(you know who you are)
but to get on to a topic. since i was
about 16 i realized that one really great
way to receive pleasure is with anal play.
i have done a few things with my
girlfriend however i want to do more. i
have had a fantasy of her using dildos and
things like that with me. i know i am not
bi because the though tof it being a man
is totally not a turn on for me. however
my girlfriend with a toy would be a great
thing for me. however she isnt really open
to the idea and i try to talk to her about
it but it is very hard and often leads to
us being awkward for a little while. i
live 7 hours away from her and we get to
see each other about once a month. what
should i do to try and get her to open up
to the idea.(sorry if some words are
missing letters my keyboard is junk)