Him laying down on his back. Stick your index finger (and middle finger if he wants you to) in his anus. About 3 or so inches in, you'll feel a slight bump. That's the prostate. He'll know it's his prostate. Experiment and see what feels best for him. There's no real "right way" to do it.

Thanks, Marvel.

How often should someone with a healthy prostate stimulate the prostate in this way? And is there any other way to give a massage other than anally?

I don't think there's any limit, really. As long as he enjoys it.

There are other ways to massage the prostate without having to enter through the anus. If you have him on his stomach, you can stimulate it by pressing firmly on his butt cheeks around his anus (especially closer to his penis). You can also firmly massage in between his legs when he's erect, and you can get some stimulation. I might add, though, that sometimes either of these techniques might not work. It's touch and go depending on the guy. It's worth a shot, though. Just make sure you push hard, but not hard enough to hurt him!

Is it painful?

Prostate Massage? Not at all!!! It feels fantastic!

2nded!

you may want to visit the High Island Health website. They sell a patented hands-free device that your husband can use by himself.

do you really believe that that only way to avoid prostate is to touch our testicle every month?

i have done prostate massage on my b/f. he says that this gives him a "superman hard-on" and a "superman orgasm". i don't mind doing it once in a while although i'm not really fond of putting my finger in his bottom (even though i used a condom on it when i did it).
i may look at buying a device for this like something andrewma mentioned above, although i do like the fact that when we did it, we did it together and it was sort of "under my power" so to speak.

jasmine

Never had this, but kind of want to try it. I did have a massage therapist that did my perineum some and that did get a quick reaction, very pleasurable.

Ah this kind of freaks me out? Is this for real lol. Does this help if you are having prostate issues or is this simply for pleasure?

I use a small vibrator called an Anal-T. It is specifically made for prostate massage. It works FANTASTIC. Cost is about $15 at adult book store or online sex toy store. Even Amazon has it.

I've tried this, even in the shower, but there is always a presence of fecal matter getting on my finger.

How can I avoid this?

Just did one of these properly for the first time, felt amazing. anyone got any other tips/advice?

Im looking to try this but need more input from others that have done it. What works best? Do you do it alone or with a partner? Do you use lube and if so what lube. How do you clean up the area in prep for insertion of finger or toy? What toy works best and where to get them? Any advice is greatly appreciated, Thanks