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Q: Could I Be Pregnant ?
asked by: xTiina on December 10th, 2007
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Okay here are the facts: 3 weeks ago my ex-boyfriend and I had sex for my first time, but with a condom. He did not finish so the possibility is super slim. But 3 nights ago I was hanging out with 4 friends (a girl, 2 guys, and myself) and we started drinking heavily and were quite tipsy. By the end of the night I sobered up, enough to know what I was doing. My best friend, who I have liked for 5 years, pulls me into a room and pulls out his penis and told me to have sex with him. Me being the stupid girl I am I do as I'm told, doing what all girls do but think "If I do what he says he will come to like me eventually." We had sex twice, without a condom, within an hour, and before I left I came to my senses and told him to stop, but for the third and final time he pushes me into the coat closet, me screaming, crying, and hitting him - hoping my other friends would hear me over the loud music playing in the basement. With no luck he proceeded to have sex with me, and him being drunk he did not feel him finishing so I turned around, slapped him, showed him the dripping semen, and rushed out of the house. I went to shoppers and took Plan B an hour and a half later. It is now 3 days later and I have severe cramps (mostly on the left side. I do have a history of getting cysts on that ovary, causing alot of pain from contortion which results in necessary surgical removal), lower back pain (possibly from volleyball?), missed period for 5 days, constant feel of needing to urinate (history of multiple U.T.I.'s), and the feeling of a period coming on but to go to the bathroom and have nothing there. Yes, I am almost 16, my periods are irregular, but I am nervous and cannot stop worrying about this. To be pregnant after my stupid actions wouldnt be what I planned for in life, yes people could say I "learned my lesson", but no one would want to go through this.
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Verizon-y
replied on December 10th, 2007
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Thank-GOD you were smart enough to get Plan B!!!!!!

You don't deserve to be so severely punished as to have an unwanted pregnancy for one unfortunate lapse of judgment.


You said you missed your period, so you should get a pregnancy test ASAP. If you are pregnant it seems likely it would be from what happened 3 weeks ago, because the events that occurred 3 nights ago were after your period was already 2 days late, right?

"t is now 3 days later"

"missed period for 5 days"
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xTiina
replied on December 11th, 2007
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Sorry I must have worded the initial post wrong. I was expecting my period on the 5th of December, and it is now December 11th. After some research my best friend did she said that my body could either be doing one of the following thing; 1) fighting off the semen, caused by the dose of plan b, 2) pain caused by the cyst, with the unexplained feeling of wanting to be sick (which i just got yesterday), or 3) just one really late, crumby period.

I would like to see my doctor but to tell my mom the REAL reason, gosh I would be disowned. I'd rather get this figured out by my own before I seak medical help.

Thanks for your post, it really means alot to me, you have no idea.
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Emma2
replied on December 11th, 2007
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The guy raped you that final time and you should be doing something about that!
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Verizon-y
replied on December 11th, 2007
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You're welcome, thanks for that nice post. Smile

Plan B delays ovulation, and it makes people feel sick. Most of your symptoms could all be from the Plan B, as you noted.

So Plan B could be delaying your period because it delays ovulation, and it makes people sick as in nausea and vomiting.

For more information you could call your local pharmacy, or even where you purchased the Plan B from. They can tell you what symptoms are from Plan B.


Or you could try this phone number and/or website, it's all info about emergency contraception (including Plan B):

http://www.not-2-late.com

1-888-668-2528
(1‑888‑NOT‑2‑LATE)

It's a toll-free phone call so it won't show up on your phone bill.

Best wishes.
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tiamccoy819
replied on December 11th, 2007
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Emma2 wrote:
The guy raped you that final time and you should be doing something about that!


Yea you should really do something about that...!!!
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Verizon-y
replied on December 11th, 2007
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That's a tough situation to be in. He deserves some heavy duty jail time.
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PenguinsRus
replied on December 11th, 2007
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You are very brave for speaking up about this and seeking advice, and VERY smart for taking plan b. You are much more intelligent than a lot of the teens that come here (not saying all of them because some are well informed, but many don't even know that plan b exists).

Are you thinking about filing a rape report against him? At this point it might be too late (usually you are supposed to go right away so they can do a DNA with semen etc, and you said you don't have any witnesses) but it might be worth it to get it out there and have it on his record that someone has accused him of rape in case if he tries it on someone else one day.

If you are worried about pregnancy, you should wait until 14 days after the last time you had unprotected sex and then test. As future said, it could very well just be the plan b hormones making your body feel that way.

Good luck, and stay strong!
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Verizon-y
replied on December 11th, 2007
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PenguinsRus, about the witnesses and DNA, etc., I agree and that's what I meant by "tough situation". It is so hard to prove rape in the courts, and a lot of times the woman is mistreated. Sad
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Dannzibelle
replied on December 12th, 2007
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your mum can't disown you for being raped. Perhaps be disappointed that the first times you let it happen
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xTiina
replied on December 12th, 2007
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There's no way I could turn him in. That's another story for another time.

And still no period, I'm scared, this is all I can think about. My stomach is bloated but no other symptoms except I feel like I'm getting my period but it's just discharge. My period is now a week late, I am freaking out Sad

Thanks for all the posts, this is the only way I could get this off my chest and to have people assuring me everything will be okay means alot to me.
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anniek
replied on December 12th, 2007
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Take a test girl! And I sure hope you do something about this guy that's wrong!! I sure hope your mom would understand. It sucks at the time but what can you do? It's not your fault. I hope you are doing better and good luck!
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Mabel
replied on December 13th, 2007
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Plan B can delay your mentstrual cycle.
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hipster86
replied on December 15th, 2007
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Chances are you're ok since you took plan B right afterward. But if you had sex with him twice and he came in you both times, then you're the one to blame for him wanting to have sex with you the third time. Your risk of being pregnant is probably low, but next time think twice before you get drunk and have unprotected sex with a guy.
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Verizon-y
replied on December 15th, 2007
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hipster86 wrote:
Chances are you're ok since you took plan B right afterward. But if you had sex with him twice and he came in you both times, then you're the one to blame for him wanting to have sex with you the third time.


Um, no. A person, man or woman, has a right to say NO to sex. She said "NO". He did it anyway, without her consent. That equals rape.

Married people can be raped. A woman can have sex with her husband 10 times in one day, then say "No" at the 11th time. If her husband forces himself on her anyway, without her consent, it's rape.
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xTiina
replied on December 15th, 2007
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futureshock you are my everything!! Thanks for all the help Smile

More than a week of no periods, but alot of white sort of clear discharge .. is that ok ?! I know plan b delays periods but this late with extreme stomach pains ??
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young Girl
replied on December 16th, 2007
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hipster86 wrote:
Chances are you're ok since you took plan B right afterward. But if you had sex with him twice and he came in you both times, then you're the one to blame for him wanting to have sex with you the third time. Your risk of being pregnant is probably low, but next time think twice before you get drunk and have unprotected sex with a guy.


oh yeah shes the one to blame Rolling Eyes


my god
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Idony
replied on December 16th, 2007
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oh yeah its her fault, dont ya know, all that kicking and screaming is just forplay

small minded morons bleh

hun, that is rape, the only thing your mum should have any problem with is the consentual sex with your ex

other then that i really dont know what to say other then take a test, its the only way you will know for sure

good luck

~alicia~
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taylormarie
replied on December 16th, 2007
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girl, you were raped! it doesnt matter that you agreed the first two times...

if youre preg, its gonna get complicated. but either way you could charge him for rape.

my guess is its the plan b pill working, because you took it so soon after
but then again, it doesnt work if your already pregnant.

wait and see if you start bleeding, or get your period within the next week.
if not, def take a test. &maybe get tested for stds too no joke...you dont know where hes been
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Verizon-y
replied on December 16th, 2007
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I think you should take a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant, my guess would be it was from the sex with your ex, because the recent sex occurred AFTER your period was already a day or two late, and Plan B wouldn't have had any effect on the sex that occurred 3 now 4 weeks ago.

From your posts:
Posted: 12-10-07 9:18pm

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3 weeks ago my ex-boyfriend and I had sex for my first time,

But 3 nights ago

(that would be December 7)


Quote:
I was expecting my period on the 5th of December,
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