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kaiteo

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What The...i'm Floored. Help.
Posted: 12-10-07 20:12pm

So my mom and her husband are going to go through a divorce again. Hopefully it will actually go through this time. She always keeps going back to him. HE IS CRAZY.

Last night she called me crying saying she didn't know what to do and that Jason (her husband) found out that she stayed at my dad's house with me and my sister. It was nothing like he thought. My mom and dad are best friends and they've been divorced for seven years, and we slept downstairs in the living room with my mom while my dad slept in his room.

Jason told my mom he found out because "your daughters have big mouths and we have thin walls". She found out today that he has software installed in the computer to hack into her email.

Also, my dad told me this morning that he had talked to her and while Jason took Isaiah (my 2 year old brother) to his mom's house (they live about three houses away from each other because he still needs his mommy and he's thirty two years old) he disconnected the electricity and left my mom there in their double wide with NO heat and NO power and didn't come home until the next morning. She couldn't leave because the roads were so bad. What the hell.

When I went to visit my mom the other night, the FIRST thing he said to me was "well I was going to ask if you were showing but I can see it in your face and thighs. You definitely don't have your normal figure". Which made me feel like a whale and want to cry. It's not like his beer git is any better than my pregnant belly. And my sister told me that his mom said, before I got there "oh, Katie's coming to visit? You know how that always turns out, everywhere that girl goes, disaster strikes."

I hate her. I hate Jason. I love my mom. I want everything to be okay, but I'm not counting on them staying split up. She says "for real this time" and I'm trying to support her, but it's the same line she uses every time. Sad

I don't know what to do, or if I can do anything. She is staying with her sister right now but apparently she and Jason are on "good terms" and even watched a movie together today. I just want to help her.
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kaiteo

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Posted: 12-10-07 20:14pm

Oh, and he broke up with her by sending his mom to talk to my mom. CLASSY.
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Posted: 12-10-07 20:26pm

Dear God! Tell you mom to file for full custody of Isaiah before Jason can do anything about it.
I'm so sorry that this is happening and that it's all so stressful. My parents are still divorcing and it's been 3 1/2 years now. I'd pull out the old gem, "once an arsehole, always an arsehole."
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Posted: 12-10-07 21:22pm

dont you love adults who act like highschoolers? Rolling Eyes thats how spouses get killed they dont realize just how abusive the relationship is until its to late. i hope reality hits her in the head like a v8 commercial
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Kaiteo
Posted: 12-10-07 22:14pm

Oh dear I agree with tdr get your mom to get the custody of Isiah before Jason decide to do anything that if she decide to split for real this time. To ask him mom to tell your mom about the spliting it's childish. The decision for your mom to split is entirely her decision. As for you his words it don't kill you just regard him as invicible, you're beautiful inside out.
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Posted: 12-10-07 22:19pm

im sorry katie! thats a big mess! ugh why do men act like that? i just wanna punch that guy in the face!!!!!

your mom needs to get out of thier before that psyco tries something even worse.
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kaiteo

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Posted: 12-10-07 22:30pm

Last time they were going through a divorce, she tried to get full custody, and they said she would only get shared. It's not fair.
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kaiteo

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Posted: 12-10-07 22:31pm

He wouldn't even touch her tummy when she was pregnant with Isaiah. He said it was disgusting. And when I tried to talk to my mom about my pregnancy he yelled at me and said it was gross and "he didn't want to hear anything having to do with my crotch" when I was talking about my uterus cramps and asking my mom questions. He's an fool, and very offensive.
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