Hi I am dating a guy I reallyreally like. He is special like no others and we are competiable in many levels. I am a few years older than him. The chemistry is great until I had him staying at my place last nite.

I was disappointed. Because I have done what I can to stimulate him and he didn't erect. He is a veryvery shy guy, no good with words usually. I also know it is his first time -- virgin. Still, I dont understand how he could not have felt excited.

I also tried to kiss his pennis. He has long foreskin covering the whole sensitive part. When I try to pull the foreskin back he told me it hurts. so I stopped.

I asked him if he plays with himself. The answer was once a day and it comes. (hope it is the true answer!)

Its really upseting becaues i dont know what I could do to help. And I dont want to stop this relationship, it's been so wonderful. So I apologized for pushing him into this and told him i would like to make love with him one day, whenever he is ready.

It's really sad. Does he have ED or was it just a psycological thing? Will a doctor please help? thanks a million.