Hello,
I was seeing this guy, and I thought we
were getting on really well. He then broke
it off, I tried to get over it, but we
ended seeing each other again on a casual
basis and werent completly innocent about
it. So I thought there was a chance we
would be getting back together. We talked
a lot but at the time I was prepping for
exams and really tried to not think about
it. Now the exams are over, everything
seems to have crumbled on me. I still love
him, but at the same time hate him because
I found out he was/is with someone else.
I just confused Dont know if I
should see him again, I want to, but not
sure if it's a good idea.
Meg
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Maddie34
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Posted: 12-09-07 20:30pm
Um.. not a good idea.
I don't know anything about this guy
really other than this little paragraph,
but he was with someone else. Is he done
with that other person or whats the
situation with that? Was he with that
person during your uninnocent yet casual
thing?
Sorry hun, this guy doesn't sound worth it
to me.
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Meg01
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2007 Posts: 8
Posted: 12-10-07 00:40am
I dont know if he was with her then, I
only found out about her the other day,
but yeah, I'm pretty sure he was. Meh,
guess I'll keep my distance then.
Thanks anyway
Meg
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meblonde01
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Posted: 12-10-07 08:32am
Meg, If he doesn't want you, let it go.. I
would not want to be with someone that
even slighly acted like he didn't want to
be with me.. YOU ARE WORTH MORE!
Remeber he broke it off..
I'm not sure if you had sex with this guy
but if you did and you are with him again
on a casual basis and you have sex then..
I would think that is what he wanted from
you.. Please stop.. Unless he comes to you
and says that he made a big mistake and
wants you back. Let it him go.. I know you
hurt.. rejects hurts more than the thought
of not being with him. But time really
does heal.. It really does. Stay busy and
DON'T think about him.. and if you do..
think about how he did not want you
anymore.. Get mad over that. It will help
you get over him.
Good Luck..
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womaninpain
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jul 2007 Posts: 179
Posted: 12-27-07 14:54pm
Dont do it! In time you will get over it
and heal...he won't buy the cow if he can
get the milk for free and you know what he
doesn't deserve you at this point. Break
it off completely and move on and you will
find someone a million times better!
Dont know if I
should see him again, I want to, but not
sure if it's a good idea.
