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Q: About Bellaxofemmina...u Read This Too!!

asked by: KariM18 on April 16th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Ok everyone.. Im sorry, I am angry right now and I know ive always been one to say not to post to a particular person but this is too ridiculous. I just spoke to her online.. She says now if shes preg she's decided to get an abortion..... Shes been posting this whole time and as uve prolly picked up, its not like she wasnt trying or trying to prevent the pregnancy. Shes been tellin me for months she wanted to be pregnant and was having unprotected sex, 'forgetting' and sometimes stopping her birth control pills etc etc.. Shes 14.. Well now shes 'decided' that it would be best to abort the baby if she is preg?!?! She is saying its her right to her body etc etc.. Well I just think that is ridiculous! She was trying, and when she wasnt trying, she wasnt trying to prevent it..She is also saying adoption isnt good cuz they end up in foster homes (another not trrue thing) . . U can pick ur own family now and adopt it straight out to them, and theres not a shortage of familys what-so-ever. . . I knew she was pathetic right from the start, and a liar, when she told me she felt the babyy moving already etc etc at like a week pregnnat, and I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt. .But now after all this she says she deicided on abortion if shes preg cuz her and her boyfriend are not ready???? I mean, maybe under some circumstances abortion should be acceptable but not this one when she admitted she wanted to get preg etc....Shes clearly not ready to be a good mom anyhow but god. .Theres so many people that are! Sorry had to vent, it just angers me off so much cuz ive been talking to her about this for months straight and shes been havin unprotected sex throughout the whole time, and skipping and stopping pills. And even tho its only a small chance shes preg.. If she is I feel terrible for the baby.

Bella x0 femmina (10:24:55 pm): I just dont think having the baby would be right at all anymore bc my boyfriend would be kicked out of his house, and he wuldnt be able to go to college bc his parents wouldnt pay for it.. And we'd wind up how his parents were when they had him young

skeaxryi629 (10:27:51 pm): so if ur preg now u would get an abortion?

Bella x0 femmina (10:27:58 pm): yeah

Replies(58)

Scarf

replied on April 16th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Meh..I doubt shes pregnant..Nothing is consistent with what she posts. But wtv, the thought of getting an abortion when she clearly did nothing to prevent it is disgusting. No one should get an abortion under these circumstances.. Evil or Very Mad

its not right. Bella, if you are pregnant..Its your fault..Deal with it. There is nothing wrong with adoption! There are so many good families out there that cannot have kids. Grrr..And if you're not pregnant, stop with these stupid posts. Meh..Wtv..
Shannon xoxox

smith8500

replied on April 16th, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Hey

Thus the reason teen mothers get bad names and reps.....Insted of focusing on good teen mothers, they see these "children" who are acting like this freak.....She needs to go play barbies and watch dora the explorer.
Sick freaks like this....Oooo that makes me angry! I don't have time for this.....Ya see why I don't reply to many of her posts......

KariM18

replied on April 16th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Yea I know. . I knew she was like this tho anyhow so I guess I shouldnt be shocked.. But im just hopin the test stays neg.. I think it will . .But god if it didnt that would be awful. But yes, that is what gives teen moms a good rep. But truly she shouldnt be included even in these statistics, just a messed up attention seeking young girl..

gypy04

replied on April 16th, 2004

Experienced User

Abortion is not a form of birth control...

lee25

replied on April 16th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I thought her post were kind of strange. I think she wants one and wants us to convince her to keep. She sounds like she needs {wants} attention. If you read this don't do anything stupid, like get pregnant on purpose just to prove us wrong.

Brenda

little_woman

replied on April 16th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I hope on everythng holy she is a bored kid playing around, how dumb can somene get? Shes (supposedly) 14 and trying to get pregnant? Doesnt she know that once she is she cannot change her mind? Gah!!! Stupid people! Wasnt she the one who bragged that her b.F was going to get her a promise ring? I'm adopted damnit and even though I went through 1 foster home when I was a few months old I have been with the greatest family for 21 years now. This girl needs to get her math equations straight and learn how to count her pills

meg

sorry i'm in a health forum.Y mood and feel like clothes lining all stupid selfish people right now

bellax0femmina

replied on April 16th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I have been saying for the longest time now that I have never tried to get pregnant, I dont know why kari cant seem to get past that! I would deff. Want to keep the baby if I were pregnant, I am probobly the most pro life person there is. But I was never thinking about my boyfriend! He would be kicked out, and not able to go to college, what life would that give him! Even if I were pregnant and decided to carry the baby and then give it up for adoption they would kick him out of the hose.

<3
gaby

KariM18

replied on April 16th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

No no dont even try it, uve told me different times u wanted to be preg. And even when u had a neg test u ssaid u werent happy.. . And regardless, u werent trying to prevent it and everyone knows that. And if u were one of 'the most pro-life' people their were then u wouldnt have wrote in the other post about roe vs. Wade etc and u said 'we' decided, including you. . So why dont u stop trying to blame other people when its your decisision too? I believe ur old enough to make a choice r u not? O wow ur boyfriend would get kicked out of the house, not good, but worth a childs life who was created by you being negligent? And u say he wouldnt be able to go to college? Bullsh*t.. Wether someone gets kicked out or not (which, if hes not even 17 which hes not, he most likely cant, its just something parents threaten) but either way, dont try to pull that, if someone wants to go to college they will find a way wether their kicked out or not!! Poor people have gone to college too.. Eh whatever u try to make excuses for urself but im sure everyone can tell.

bellax0femmina

replied on April 16th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

How is it worth a childs life??? We would wind up living in a caca house with no money to buy the things we need, and this child would appreciate that?? Jason says that he wishes he were aborted because he messed up his parents life and now they are divorced. I know it is my choice too, so why are you jumping down my throat for making it?!

I know ive said I wanted a baby but I have never purposly tried to get pregnant. I have missed pills, yes, but then I would tell my boyfriend and we wouldnt have sex, except for last week.. That was the only time, bc I didnt know!

I'm sorry you all hate me but I really dont know what to say anymore.

<3
gaby

KariM18

replied on April 16th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Cuz u lie ridiculously.. U said u wanted to get preg. .And u were havin unprotected sex on several occasions and u even told me but u lie on here.. Thats not trying? Either way, I wasnt tryin to convince u to keep it, I dont think u would be a good mom, but theres adoption like one of the girls said, she was adopted! But ur tryin to make it seem like u'd be way worse off then u are. Ur 14, u cant get kicked out either and u know u wouldnt. But I wouldnt want u to keep it anyhow. Ur just so immature, and 14, u made a wrong choice, and if a baby is involved, he/she will suffer, not u. Im done talking about, just feel strongly about it in situations like this. Especially when u keep tryin to lie and make excuses to sound better for it~

once again u lie in ur next post.. U told me u wanted to be preg several times. But everyone knows u werent tryin to prevent it. And open adoption hapens thousands of times in yr. .If I went right now to 'pick a family' I would have huge books to go through! But theres no pt in tryin to lie and defend urself anyhow anymore.. I dont think ur provin anything. Also, u'd 'miss ur baby'? . . Wouldnt u miss it if he/she were dead because you aborted it? *contradicting* and another lame excuse. O well I doubt ur preg anyhow but its just the point. Ok . .Now I think im done..

bellax0femmina

replied on April 16th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I'm very happy that it worked out with her adoption, but I just dont like it. The kid could wind up in foster homes, and i'd just miss my baby! I know I know, open adoption.. But 3 times or somthing a year is really not enough. Yes, i've had sex without condoms before(5 times at the most), but last week was the only tme i've had real unprotected sex. I dont know where youre coming up with this stuff, I dont, didnt, and never will want to become pregnant at this age!

<3
gaby

babyrae

replied on April 16th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

My aunt did an open adoption and its not just 3 times a year, the child is now 13 and she visits her real mom whenever she wants (even tho shes made it clear shes very happy in my aunts family) but with adoptions nowadays, there are so mnay differeent ways. My friend also had a baby at 14 and her mom takes care of it but the baby still knows my friend is her mom and they visit it often, thats a type of adoption too. There are many types.
And I can tell u now from experience... If u were to have an abortion, u will(caps) have to live with it the rest of ur life and trust me, not a day goes by when u dont think about it. It will scar you. I had mine for certain reasons but still to this day, it bothers me to know what I have done. And u will never ever be able to take it back. Even if u happen to get preggy again afterwards u'll always wonder about that child and its not worth the pain and depression u have to go thru for months after it. It's been 3 years and it still hurts to think about it. I know many other girls who've had abortions and every single one regrets it. I know u would. So plz, if u are trying to get preggy (even tho u shouldnt cuz ur only 14) never even consider abortion and research more into the topic of teen pregnancy, cuz there is a lot more to learn about teen pregnancy and parenting then any other type of education out there.

Shauna

sparklypixie12

replied on April 16th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Bella or whatever the hell your name is-if you dont want a baby then stop shagging-if you cant deal with the consequences then dont do the deed.
There's nothing more patethic then silly little girls who think theyre pregnant all the time-if you're going to have sex then sort out your birth control because its not something you should mess around with.
And dont even give me that caca about you're the most pro-life person you know-whatever. Who says theyre pro life & then says they want an abortion.I say im pro-life because I would 100% never have an abortion even if it'd save my life but thats my opinion.I dont care what you think just dont go round saying you're pro-life when you're blatantly not.
Omg this is so pathetic!!!

lilmama2b_oct04

replied on April 16th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Gaby, I really suggest you get on the shot if you cant remember to take your birthcontrol pills... Use condoms when you have sex! Im sorry but this is kinda pathetic, yea I know I shouldnt be preachin cuz I am a pregnant teen, but im in a totaly different situation than you, I live with my boyfriend, not with mommy(sorry to all the other girls that still live at home with your parents, im not dissin on you, just this girl cuz this is just pathetic). My boyfriend has a job to support me and my unborn baby. I have a very supportive family, that will help me if im in need.
But still, your 14 years old, and you think your pregnant every month... I think that if I had pregnancy scares every month then I would get myself on some more reliable birthcontrol, and start using condoms all the time! Im sorry girl, but your stories just dont match up. You dont mind killin a baby, but you wouldnt give it up for adoption to a nice loving family that cant have kids of their own... With open adoption your kid aint gonna be going from foster home to foster home, it will have a family... A normal one, just like everybody elses. You werent tryin to prevent it too hard if youve had pregnancy scares before. If you cant handle the fact of sex leads to pregnancy, then dont have sex no more...

PregnaJordan

replied on April 16th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

If ur boyfriend wishes he was aborted then you must not mean that much to him....Think about it....If he wasnt here..Yall wouldnt' be together...Im doing my Dr. Phil caca but oh well...I hope ur not preg.

Mesmerizeu15

replied on April 17th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Pro life. If you were really prolife than no matter what you would no give up that baby. You were trying to get pregnant. You were not on birth control you were not using condoms, you were having sex. I smell something fishy here. I think that ou need to get a serious reality check. You and your boyfriend should have thought about everything before hand. I dont think that you are going to learn from this though, I dont think that when people have abortions do learn. I think that they just go and have another. You are a health forum and I think that you are a pathetic person. I dont care if I lived in a crappy house, on the other side of the tracks. I would keep my baby. I dont care if I knew that my baby would have a mental disability, I would get that baby help and keep my baby. You layed down and had sex, and if you are pregnant I think that you should have to deal with what comes out of it, if not more. I think that you should have to tell your mother that you are going to get an abortion, and tell her what you did. I think that you are more anti life than anything. Pplease dont begin to attack the rest of the girls that are on this site becaues they are either taking care of there children, learning, or are pregnant. You on the other hand should join an abortion site because that is what ou are thinking about doing. I am beyond pissed right now..

medical question y o u , y o u health forum !!

sparklypixie12

replied on April 17th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

You girl go! You are so so right stacie.You were young when you got pregnant but you never gave up & look at the joy sean gives you.
If im being truthful I think this girls a bigger fake then melissa! I mean she thinks shes pregnant ever day & does tests & forgets her contraception and blah blah blah its nonsense

HomecomingQueen2003

replied on April 17th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I am grately restraining myself right now, but I just wanted to post and tell you what a selfish person you are! Chrissy just turned 15 and is now the mother of a 3 week old baby boy and she loves her son, has a job and will be returning to school. You have noooo credible excuse! Girls like you, who plan babies then abort them shouldn't be aloud to have children, .E.V.E.R.!!!!!!

Megan

insurancegirl

replied on April 17th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

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