Did they do an ultrasound o confirm its an ectopic pregnancy?

Oh that's horrible! When are you going to have surgery?

yes they did do an ultra sound.

im going to have the surgery the 18 i couldnt do it next week because of my schedule so ill be in quite some pain but i need finals to pass college.

oh im so sorry

You'll come out of the surgery just fine; and you'll still be able to have children when you're ready and want to Are you graduating this December?

Hope it all goes well for you. Take care of yourself and let your body heal. Take care and hope you do well on your finals.

Get well soooooon!!!

im not graduating college yet im going through all my prereqs first then hoping to transfer into ucla usc nyu or uci maybe ucsd or san loui.

but thank you everyone for your well wishing and your positiveness. it makes me feel better. i sort of felt that i should explain my almost sudden disappearance

I can't believe they're allowing you to put off surgery for an ectopic pregnancy for so long? What about the risk of rupture?

I would question that too. A rupture can cause death and internal bleeding.

Generally they take you to surgery IMMEDIATELY.

they said it wasnt an immediate risk, though i should get it done asap. i cant get it done any sooner than my finals, because if i dont take them i will fail my classes, all fo which are prereqs to get into any uc. though they are making me come in about every other day since then to make sure i am ok and that i can make it, but im not able to do anything drive myself, go out other than to school, i am basically under house arrest with out the anklet. and 2 of my teachers are actually letting me take my finals at home the other two require me to go in. i know i shouldnt but if i dont wait then i fail a semester that i would have to take all over again, and as long as i dont rupture i can put it off, i know its a case of stupid vs stupid but i HAVE TO PASS. i cant put myself back in college any further than i already am. i wanted to get into a 4 year last year but something came up and i was unable to, now i have to.

edit: i go in tomorrow and if i can i want to get it moved up to friday right after my last final.. which i do have to go in for unfortunately. tomorrow i get to stay home and do my final. (my final exam schedual was given to me the day after i found out so i had to guesstemate when i would have finals and when they would be done. thats why i made it so late.)

Hope it all goes well. Take care and hope you get it done as soon as you can so you don't have future problems. Hope you do well on your tests!

Wow, what an unreasonable bunch of professors. I hope all turns out well, too.