Thats great that you are willing to become a surrogate mother! I am unable to carry babies because I was born without a uterus, although I have ovaries and fallopian tubes...I cant answer your question but I know if I had the money or could get approved for a loan I would pay for you to come to the U.S. and pay your rent while your holding my baby and Im sure there's lots of other women that are willing to do the same.