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Is it ok to beat off with your buddys. all my friend do it.
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replied December 8th, 2007
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If it feels good and you're not harming anyone and it's not impeding on important things you have to do, why not?
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replied December 31st, 2007
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what are you getting at? Are you asking if we think its gay?
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replied December 31st, 2007
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honestly i like to beat off alone, its like the only time i get that i know no one can take away from me, so i rather do it alone in peace.
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replied August 6th, 2008
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i think it's great! they used to call it circle jerks. the situation itself is arousing due to the reinforcement from other males
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replied August 10th, 2008
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I'm not going to make a call re whether there is any "gayness" involved here. But I will say that there is never anything wrong with masturbation or "beating off" as you put it. I masturbate often myself, so I can't ever criticize that.
Regarding whether beating off in a group is unusual or "deviant" or gay or likewise, I believe depends on what you are thinking about during your getting aroused and when you are deep into your state of arousal (read this as having a full erection, jacking off intensely and working towards a major cum shot). If you thoughts include the opposite sex either paired with you or in a threesome or whatever, then you probably have nothing to worry about, but if you are thinking solely of how the guy next to you looks while he's jerking and if you are admiring his penis, etc., you may need to think about your reason for participating in a group jack off session.
That's my 2 cents.
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replied August 11th, 2008
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ive done it and i love it

but im bi so..
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replied August 12th, 2008
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Is it ok?

Define ok, because this would be a subjective answer that would vary by the person and the society or community in which one lives in.

It is an "unusual behavior" only in that one can assume that the ratio of people masturbating alone vs then with their friends is rather high. But this is a common occurrence nonetheless, many guys do masturbate together.

Is this a homosexual act? Again, this answer varies, some guys are less comfortable with themselves then others, and other guys don't mind showing off their johnson in public.

Agreed with marvel though, does it really matter so long as it doesn't harm others and deter yourself from a normal functioning life?
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replied August 12th, 2008
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No it is not ok! everytime you touch yourself a fairy dies!!!!!!!
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replied September 5th, 2008
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Listen there is really no reason why you should beat off with other guys around. It is somthing you should do by yourself.
You might as well just go on the web and watch it there.
Plus you never know if sombody might find out and open a can of worms you wanted to keep private.
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replied September 5th, 2008
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worriedauzzi wrote:
No it is not ok! everytime you touch yourself a fairy dies!!!!!!!


Hahahaha

This is a joke right? I wouldn't want to kill fairies...
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replied September 8th, 2008
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lol think of the fairies!
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replied January 3rd, 2009
go for it.... enjoy urself! wen u get married like me ure stuk in monogomy, great sex but torture as its with one person foreva!!!!!!!! do all u can b4 it happens to u!
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replied January 3rd, 2009
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I have never masturbated in a group period. Where im from that would be considered gay. im a bi male so I may enjoy it. But as furry said I think it depends on what ur thinking about during the process which can define more along the road but I would say its o...k.
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replied March 15th, 2009
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I am not sure
I did it with my buddy and I am not sure if that was gay or not, but hell I like it, I am not sure if I am going to do it again.
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replied March 23rd, 2009
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so hey what about 2 brothers? (I personally think anything sexual with a family member is wrong. But im not a guy or a brother)

like as pre-teens?

someone i know shared this with me and I was a little concerned about it. Is this normal? They would watch porn together and wack off. I think this happened a few times. And once they even gave eachother BJ's. Apparently it was easier to help each other out.

They both were abused as kids. SO is this from abuse or do brothers really do this together?
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replied March 24th, 2009
Beating Off and Circle Jerks
Isn't this one of the things that Joycelyn Elders, the former Surgeon General of the United States suggested it should be mentioned in a lecture situation as part of the cirriculum in schools as a safer sex option in the fight against AIDS/HIV, sexual transmitted diseases and prevention of unplanned pregnancy?
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replied April 14th, 2010
Ive never done it before but I'd like to. I think it would be a great male bonding thing plus its fun so why not?
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replied April 15th, 2010
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Re: Beating Off and Circle Jerks
Studmuffin wrote:
Isn't this one of the things that Joycelyn Elders, the former Surgeon General of the United States suggested it should be mentioned in a lecture situation as part of the cirriculum in schools as a safer sex option in the fight against AIDS/HIV, sexual transmitted diseases and prevention of unplanned pregnancy?

Nope, she was talking about mutual masturbation. Somewhat different depending on your perspective. However group masturbation would also be a very low risk sexual act.
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replied May 3rd, 2010
I am not a young man but have been married for 38 years. I used to be very concerned because I continued to masturbate after getting married. Since the Internet, I found out that I have not been alone on this. In those days I could never feel free to discuss with other men. I still have a very strong libido and do jack off every two or three days.
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