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Posted: 02-14-08 20:33pm


Quite, homerx, and my point is that this is how deep prejudice runs against male homosexuality, because I am not aware of many countries treating lesbian activity as a crime. In fact, there was a case in the UK recently where a female tennis coach was convicted of having sexual relations with one of her students, a 13 year old girl. it made front page news and so on, but it was evident in the tone of the reporting that this was somehow not as 'serious' as, for instance, a similar case involving an older male and young male or female. So, thanks for raising this issue, speedy.

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Posted: 02-14-08 20:36pm


Homerx, where did you get your excellent avatar?

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Posted: 02-14-08 22:15pm

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Quite, homerx, and my point is that this is how deep prejudice runs against male homosexuality, because I am not aware of many countries treating lesbian activity as a crime. In fact, there was a case in the UK recently where a female tennis coach was convicted of having sexual relations with one of her students, a 13 year old girl. it made front page news and so on, but it was evident in the tone of the reporting that this was somehow not as 'serious' as, for instance, a similar case involving an older male and young male or female.

So, thanks for raising this issue, speedy.

That is just the way I have always thought of it. Its a double standard and it kind of makes the heterosexual guy seem a bit insecure in his own sexuality to me because I don't care what any other man thinks of my personal sexuality and I could care less about another guys...unless he is a rapist or pedophile or something sick like that.
Oh, and the avatar...I gust Google avatar-Homer Simpson or The Simpson's and a butt load pop up to choose from.

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Posted: 02-19-08 15:23pm


I think, too, that one of the big things is that on average, more men find lesbian sex more attractive than women who find two men having sex attractive. Not that it matters, but I think that Gay men have the numbers stacked against them in that respect.

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Posted: 02-19-08 15:52pm


marvel, I think you are right. the only straight girl I have ever heard say that 2 men having sex was hot was Grace on Will and Grace. 2 girls can have sex and still be considered straight but not 2 guys...kind of a reverse double standard if you ask me.

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Posted: 02-19-08 16:14pm


One of my straight male friends confided in me once that he had often fantasised about being really intimate with his closest friend. He said it wasn't a physical attraction so much as an appeal to the psyche and that if it were ever to happen he would probably feel appalled. For him it would always remain a fantasy and the sad thing was that he had never told another person for fear of being somehow 'labelled'. I think women speak much more freely about emotions, and for a woman, being physically close to your friend is much more acceptable (girls hug and kiss each other quite freely). Therefore girl-on-girl is seen as a more 'innocent' act . Men traditionally would not hug or kiss or snuggle up on a sofa together. So I think the double standards that you refer to, homer, are more to do with gender stereotyping than anything else.

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Posted: 02-19-08 17:36pm


Business as usual then, mr tibbs? I would prefer you do not quote me in your scurrilous postings. Thank you.

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Posted: 02-19-08 17:38pm

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Business as usual then, mr tibbs? I would prefer you do not quote me in your scurrilous postings. Thank you.

shonster, thus the "ignore" button. Heaven is just a click away! voices

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Posted: 02-19-08 17:42pm


Cheers, homer - had forgotten about that.

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Posted: 02-19-08 17:54pm


I had 2 until I came to this post and saw mr.tibbs had started again. I didn't even read what he wrote, I already know where he is headed, so CLICK!...all gone! Its a pip!

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Posted: 03-05-08 20:57pm


I can't see why someone would have sex with someone they are not attracted too though? So I think if you have sex with the same sex, then yes you are at least bi. Nothing wrong with that.

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Posted: 03-10-08 14:47pm


yeah, likeAstone, you R right I think...if you aren't at least bi then you just couldn't and wouldn't...thats why I know I am 100% gay, I have never even wanted to experiment sexually with a woman, not that theres anything wrong with that...its just not 4 me.

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Posted: 04-05-08 00:16am


A case of double standards i believe, i have always thought that way myself, why is it considered ok for 2 girls and not ok for 2 guys?? And I think I agree, women seem to be wanting to just turn guys on when they do it, at least when men do it, they do it for a reason, not for fake, you know what I mean? btw, I am a girl

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Posted: 04-05-08 20:32pm


good point

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Posted: 04-07-08 21:31pm


I thought so. just wanted to add, my nephew is gay, he's an awesome kid, wouldn't trade him for anything

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Posted: 04-08-08 10:03am

mikky wrote:

I thought so. just wanted to add, my nephew is gay, he's an awesome kid, wouldn't trade him for anything

You rock!!! yes

your a good aunt...

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Posted: 04-08-08 10:09am


well so do you lol and thanks. You know, it's hard enough getting by in this world today, let alone being gay, I think they are treated better than they use to be, but it's still a rough road to drive.

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Posted: 04-08-08 10:11am


Yep...

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Its Ok Posted: 05-05-08 14:38pm


I think its ok,Sex is the perfect stress reliever,And STRESS KILLS. We all know how relaxed we feel after masturbating,So if you are just sharing this with another person and not hurting either ones relationships,Whats The Prob??

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Posted: 05-08-08 11:01am


Definately an interesting topic. My wife and I have discussed this many times. I don't find men attractive in a sexual way. However, I do find two women very attractive. Fortunately, so does my wife. So, with that said.... I am a firm believer in sensations. I won't go so far as to say "If it feels good, do it" because it leaves far too much open that is illegal (pedaphilia and the like). But if two consenting adults wish to explore and engage in intimate or simply sensational scenes, there is nothing wrong with it. There was one time I was asked to co-top with a very talanted Domme. I was really honored to work with her. We worked well with rythem. But, her sub was male and was VERY nervous about me. I'm not gay, not bi, not curious. In the scene, he was just another body. I focused on flesh, nerves and muscle groups. When the Domme looked at me and said "Have to run to the bathroom... take over" I did so. He was very uncomfortable at first. But his Domme gave the order, he would have to take it. He relaxed by the time she returned, realizing that intimacy (yes I consider bondage intimate) does not bring sexuality into play. We laughed about it afterwards, and he realized that while he may not be into sex with men, or making out. There were other intimate ways that you could be involved with same sex, without it being gay or breaking Taboo lines. The Dreadmuse